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BB
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the FACTS
Born: Bangkok, Thailand
Resides: West Hollywood, CA
Birth date: 12-9
Sign: Sagittarius
Height: 5'2"
Hair: Dark Brown
Eyes: Dark Brown
Ethnicity: Thai/Scots-Irish
Status: Divorced, no children
Want Children: Yes
Nonsmoker
Occupation: Public Relations, Special Events, Hosting,
Freelance graphic design
... on HERSELF
Strengths: "Honest, funny, intelligent,
nurturing, confident, passionate, loyal."
Weakness: "Procrastination, having too many things
going at once."
Others may not see: "I am extremely complex. There are
so many sides of my personality. You may find me out doing
the Hollywood scene, or spending hours researching new
technology, or working on a new art project. I may be joking
around acting like a total goofball or immersed in
deep intellectual debates with like minded friends. Just
depends."
I've been known to ... "be the life of the party."
Interests: "I am interested in many things creative. I
am an artist when time permits. I also enjoy fine dining and
great wine and keep a small collection of my various
favorite vintage varietals. I am a bit of a gadget geek and
enjoy technology. I also like surfing and love
animals."
Turn ons: "Vintage wine, quality cheese, thunderstorms,
fine dining, traveling, surfing, art, interesting quotes and
metaphors, candlelit baths, animals, nature, romance,
laughing."
Turn offs: "Superficiality, dishonesty, materialism,
arrogance, opportunists, political posturing, fanatics,
rudeness, stupidity."
Special Talents: "Cooking, drawing/painting, design,
writing, singing, graphic art, photography, most things
`creative.'"
Charities: "ASPCA, Habitat for Humanity, Global Green,
Sierra Club."
Travels: "Puerto Rico, St. Barths, Virgin Gorda,
Cozumel, Grand Cayman, Bangkok, Paris, Madrid, Barbados,
Cancun, Stockholm, Toronto, all over the US including living
in Baton Rouge, Houston, Dallas, San Francisco, and
NYC."
Spirituality: "Spiritual but not religious. I feel
religion has been the root of almost every major controversy
in history and I am not much of a conformist."
Staying healthy: "Cardio/elliptical, boxing,
surfing."
What touches my soul: "People doing meaningful things
to better this world."
... on MEN
Attention-getters: "Be polite, funny, nice and
honest."
Ideal man: "Looks wise, I generally prefer tall
handsome athletic men. If a man is great looking ... that
will get my attention but won't necessarily keep it. I like
intelligent men who are confident yet humble. I like a man
who will have me laughing out loud, who is affectionate,
understanding, honest, romantic, sincere, passionate, loyal,
driven, and stable."
I can't resist a man who ... "does the little things to
let you know he cares and appreciates the little things in
return."
Most important quality in a man: "Honesty. If there is
no trust in a relationship ... it is doomed from the get go.
Most other aspects of successful relationships (friends or
lovers) including bonding are dependent on the level of
trust. Habitual lying shows a lack of respect for others and
is inherently cowardice."
Ideal date: "Definitely a great dinner with wine.
Movies are great but not a good thing to do when you are
trying to get to know someone. Going to a piano lounge and
talking by a fireplace or even throwing a blanket down by
the ocean after dark are nice ideas only if there is some
mutual chemistry."
What makes me want to see a man again after a first date:
"I like a man that is well mannered and polite. I do
not like the bad boy thing or arrogance. I also like
conversations to flow smoothly and of course to be able to
have an intelligent conversation with a man or a completely
senseless one. I would hope he makes me laugh and intrigues
me enough to wish to see him again. I don't like
"players" and I don't do the notch on the belt
thing. I like the nice guy and of course there must be
mutual chemistry. I have to be attracted to a man mentally,
emotionally, and physically."
I'd never date a man who ... "is not self-sufficient,
hunts, lies, cheats, is mean spirited, self-centered,
unstable, doesn't take care of himself, is a
"player", has any self destructing addictions, has
any EXTREME political/religious views (i.e.: scientologists,
evangelists) or is down right stupid."
How I show I care: "Doing the little things like
kissing his forehead sometimes instead of his lips or
leaving him notes in unexpected places or giving him a nice
massage after a hard days work. There are so many ways to
show you care. It doesn't have to be monetary."
What makes a man unforgettable: "Amazing eyes, a really
fabulous smile, a passionate kisser, and usually a memorable
masculine scent."
I wish men understood ... "they don't always need to
agree ... but they do need to learn to empathize. Sometimes
it's not about right or wrong ... it's about understanding
each other and communicating effectively. generally speaking
... guys need to be more emotionally involved and girls need
to be less."
One thing a man has never done for me yet, but I would love
it: "Take an extended trip w/me to travel to some
destinations I want to visit in the world."
... on RELATIONSHIPS
Top relationship keys: "I discussed this in a couple
places already."
A man in a relationship with me can expect ...
"romance, nurturing, laughs, some head butting at
times, good conversation, great meals, loyalty."
What I expect: "Obviously if it's a relationship, I
expect them to be honest, loyal, trustworthy and
considerate. Reliability is a must as well. If a guy says
he's going to do something, he should do it. I expect there
to be balance whether it be in communication or showing of
affection. Relationships are give and take. If there is no
balance ... it leads to resentment and discontent."
Greatest relationship lesson: "Communication, you
absolutely have to communicate, you can't keep things
bottled up. Many times couples bicker to everyone about
their relationship issues but do little to communicate to
find resolve. As Einstein stated, insanity is doing the same
thing over and over again and expecting different results.
If something is flawed, fix it or take a break until you
figure out what is causing the issue. Don't bitch, cheat,
and lie. If you don't have respect for your partner, have
some for yourself."
... on Life:
Valuable life lesson: "There are so many true
adversities I have experienced that the little things should
be of little concern. Save the worrying and pre-mature aging
for truly significant issues."
I must ... "travel to places I am dying to visit
including getting to know my home country on a more personal
level. Learn new things (special effects makeup artistry,
learn languages, the piano, etc). Find the one, raise some
awesome kids, grow into granny gracefully."
... on HER FAVORITE THINGS
Movie: "I like thrillers and comedies. Some favorites
are Usual Suspects, Count of Monte Cristo, Will Ferrell
films, Dumb and Dumber, Martial arts films like House of
Flying Daggers, Hero, Gladiator, so many more. I love
watching movies."
TV: "I watch a lot of Discovery Channel and History
Channel. I like shows that educate me on stuff like Cash
Cab, Man Vs Wild, Modern Marvels, Myth Busters, How It's
Made. I also love Top Chef, Iron Chef, and Food Network
Challenge. I admit I like reality TV but only the
competition shows that are more creative/strategic like Top
Design, Top Chef, Project Runway, Survivor, etc. I don't
care for trash reality TV."
Music: "As diverse as I am. Depends on my mood. Could
be Billy Holiday one minute or a Fedde Le Grand house mix
the next. I listen to Opera, Country, Hip Hop, almost
anything."
Food: "I love spicy food (hello, I am half Thai and
grew up in Louisiana). Some favorites are Thai, Korean,
Vietnamese, Indian, Japanese (SUSHI!!). Some weaknesses I
have are fried chicken, buffalo wings, Blue Saga or
Cambozola on toasted sourdough."
... final THOUGHTS:
Pets: "My brilliant cat, Vino. He's a stray I adopted
11 years ago when he was just 6 weeks. He actually decides
what guys he does and doesn't like. Kinda funny because he
has been pretty accurate on which one's were a waste of
time...lol."
Tattoos/piercings: "4 tats ... only one that is
very visible ... pierced ears and navel. One is a barbed
wire around my right arm. I have a Thai symbol on the
back of my neck that stands for peace. I have a heart
with an arrow going through it on my right ankle. I have a
little butterfly by my bikini line. They all symbolize
something."
Always in my refrigerator: "Master cleanse (tastes
good), eggs, organic unsweetened soy for my protein shakes,
water, usually something for my salt cravings like
prosciutto, habenero sauce, crunchy and cold like Persian
cumbers or celery."
Hottest possession: "Well most valued possession ... my
woobie (security blanket I have had for 19 years ... been
all over the world with me."
Celeb I'd love to go on a date with: "Edward
Norton. I have a weakness for smart guys, like absurdly
smart. Edward Norton is really intelligent and an
amazing actor and writer. There's this geeky brilliance
about him, but I still find him sexy. Other celebs I find
sexy are Paul Walker (I love tall guys and he is tall,
gorgeous, and down to earth), Jason Statham, Chris Evans,
and Daniel Craig to name a few."
Why I'm such a great catch: "Because I make people
laugh. I am honest, loyal, fun, nurturing, caring,
intelligent, passionate, adventurous and loving."
Me in a word: "Unique."
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