... the FACTS

Born: Hollywood,  CA

Resides: Los Angeles, CA

Birthdate: 12-28-71

Sign: Capricorn

Height: 5'10"

Hair: Brunette

Eyes: Blue

Family: One Brother

Status: Divorced, one child

Want More Children: Yes

NonSmoker

Education: Bachelor's Degree

Occupation: Marketing/Public Relations

... on HERSELF

Best Qualities: "Loyal. Funny. Adventurous. Romantic. Sensual. Playful. Sincere. A "one man woman". Spiritual."

Strengths: "Prolific writer. Ambitious. Creative. Nurturer."

Weakness: "I have a tendency to over book myself and I have a hard time telling people who I care about "NO"." 

Others may nor see: "Mmmmm. Good question! I think that people perceive me as the "good girl". The "girl next door". The one who can hang and play sports with the boys and who you can ALWAYS count on for advice. However, I can be REALLY bad if the mood strikes me! I am INTENSELY PASSIONATE."

I've been known to ... "give till it hurts and I have a soft spot for rescuing dogs. They always seem to FIND me."

Interests: "Writing. Painting. Creating. Cooking. Yoga. Traveling. Hiking. Photography."

Turn Ons: "Confidence. Romance. Someone who is proud of who they are inside and out. When my guy holds my face in his strong hands or massages my back! Strong arms,  I am a big cuddler."

Turn Offs: "Narcissists. Someone who speaks about themselves all the time. Men who make what they DO ... who they ARE. Men who look around the room while they are talking to you. People who are not confident enough to just BE and feel that they have to fill every second with "chatter". There is so much in the world to be SEEN ... IF we will just quiet our minds."

Special Talents: "Raising a beautiful daughter. Writing. Networking. Creating." 

Titles: "I don't like to brag about my career. This is something best shared amongst two people, intimately with alot of eye contact."

Charities: "Many! I will give till it hurts!"

15 minutes of fame: "On camera red-carpet spokesperson for E!, PR and fashion consultant for ENTERTAINMENT TONIGHT for 16 years, owning my own Ezine for women, PhD in Somatic Psychotherapy, etc. Same answer as "AWARDS, TITLES" above."

Spirituality: "I am a Spiritual Gangsta! ;-)"

Fashion sense: "A 10! It was and still is my business. So ... what can I say ... I am still a Fashionista at heart. But, ironically, my favorites are still cut off jean shorts and a vintage tee."

Staying Healthy: "Meditation. Yoga. Kickboxing. Hiking. Dance."

What Touches My Soul: "A sunset. Taking my Nikon to remote locations and places and capturing "life moments". I think that in a past life I was a National Geographic phot-journalist! Just OPEN YOUR EYES and quiet your soul ... life is full of beauty and random, stunning acts of kindness and compassion!"

... on MEN

I first notice ... "A random, simple act. A long glance. A moment caught between him and his dog surfing. A poem (it doesn't even have to be good! It's all in the thought). I am a big fan of "Knights and Ladies". So, that being said, any act of chivalry or something that makes me feel like a woman, and let's him be the man is SEXY!"

Ideal man: "I believe that the Universe has plans for us all. I don't think that people should have an "ideal anything". It's the uniting of two souls and FATE. It's all about the journey and love you make along the way."

I can't resist a man who ..."smells yummy and is a good hugger and kisser. A man who can make me laugh AND ROCK MY WORLD!"

Most important quality in a man: "Integrity and a strong sense in SELF."

Ideal Date: "Walks on the beach, kissing in the rain, reading in the bath to each other ... It really depends. I am a very "chill", Zen kind of person. I am happy doing ANYTHING that makes me closer to my man. It could be a movie and Thai food on the floor of my living room in front of the fire or a crazy party."

What makes me call a man back after a first date: "I am shy at first. I like to be called after a first date."

I'd never date a man who ... "does not respect me or himself. Does not adore his family or animals."

How I show I care: "I love PDA! When I am into my guy ... I am not afraid to show it!"

What makes a man unforgettable: "It could be something they have whispered in my ear, a gesture, the way the hair falls over one eye, the way they treat others, their sense of humor. It depends."

I wish men and women understood ... "that the dynamic is simple. Society should have never created this whole "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" enigma. Yes.  We are different creatures. Both unique. Both Beautiful. I think this says it all: “Woman was taken out of man; not out of his head to top him, nor out of his feet to be trampled underfoot; but out of his side to be equal to him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be loved."

One thing a man has never done for me yet, but I would love it: "Oooooh!  That is a LOADED question. I am taking the 5th on this one."

... on RELATIONSHIPS 

On Relationships: "When you find the person you want to spend and share the rest of your life with ... you want it to start right away!"

Top relationship keys: "Communication. respect. chemistry. passion. friendship. intimacy. humor. love. compassion. honesty. partnership."

A man in a relationship with me can expect ... "All of the above and MORE!"

What I Expect: "Same as above."

When I'm in love, I ... "am giddy, silly, passionate and my heart and soul are full of joy."

What makes me feel close to a man: "When he can share his dreams, passions, fears and his journey with me."

Greatest relationship lesson: "That love finds a way and that there are absolutely no regrets. If one door closes, it is because another one is opening and the time was not right. We all bring gifts into each other's lives. "I am learning to be brave in my beautiful mistakes..."  (PINK)."

What makes a man marriage material: "Honor. Bravery. Compassion. Respect. Commitment. Friendship. Chemistry."

... on SEX

I feel my sexiest when ... "I am about to see my man."

Sexiest thing a man can wear in private is ... "a smile."

Surefire way to seduce me: "I am an old school romantic. It's the little things that get me. A single flower. A mix tape. A surprise trip. A text during the day saying they are thinking of me. Small gestures that cost virtually nothing but that mean the world is the sure way to me heart!"

... on LIFE

Making mark: "I have a HUGE philanthropic plan in the works!"

Responsibility to Society: "To help those around me less fortunate and be the best I can be. To teach my daughter to respect all living creatures and always help others."

Valuable Life Lesson: "Life is SWEET! Open your eyes. Interact, share with people! It's not just the journey while we are here ... it is about the people we meet, the lives we touch and the love we make that counts."

What I Try to get out Of Everyday: "BLISS."

I must ... " I have a leather bound journal that I randomly add all of my "bucket list" places to see, people to meet, dreams to achieve. I may have to start volume II soon."

Best Advice Received: "Beauty awakens the soul to act."

Best Advice I've Given: "Be yourself."

... on HER FAVORITE THINGS

Movie: "Cinema Paradiso."

TV Show: "Bones, 30 Rock, The Office."

Book: "I go through 3 a week!"

Food: "Veggie lasagna."

Season: "All of them!"

... final THOUGHTS

Wheels: "Convertible BMW."

Pets: "3 dogs, 2 horses."

Tattoos: "Butterfly, floral anklet."

Always In My Refrigerator: "These are such great questions!  Brilliant! Let's see ... Polenta,  Kale, Whole wheat tortillas, zucchini, garlic stuffed olives, yogurt, fruit, CHEESE!"

Hottest Possession: "My daughter (although she is not a possession!)."

I'd change places for 24 hours with ... "Angelina Jolie. Maya Angelou. Oprah. Colin Farrell. Emily Deschanel (BONES)."

I'd most like to hang out with ... "James Bond (the character). Joan of Arc. Dali Lama."

Celeb I'd love to date: "No comment."

Me, a deserted island, and ... "my man. A writing pad. My Nikon. Sunscreen! Oh! and an airplane stocked with fresh, healthy food and yummies. After all ... a girl's gotta eat!"

Why I'm such a great catch: "Sense of humor. Passion. Excellent listener. Loving partner. Passionate about love and life. Blue eyes and long legs! LOL."

Last Thoughts: "I have an inner child who is constantly at play! ;-)."

Me in a word: "Loving."