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Drew
"A surefire way for a woman to seduce me is to be playful, sexy and obvious of her interest but showing no desperation," says 25-year-old Drew. Born and raised in Minnesota, this 5'11" personal trainer and co-owner of his own fitness studio, believes his biggest weakness is that he's too nice. "Some people take it the wrong way," says Drew, "and it has gotten me in hot water!" How does this blue-eyed Leo show a woman he cares: "I will write her poems, send little gifts and listen to her needs, disappointments, expectations, wants and frustrations," says Drew. "And I will be supportive of her, always."
... the FACTS
Resides: Sartell, MN
Birthdate: 8-8-78
Sign: Leo
Height: 5’11"
Hair: Blonde
Eyes: Blue
Family: One Sister (28) and Two Brothers - one older (27) one younger (24)
Status: Divorced
Children: Yes, not living at home (5 year old Girl)
Nonsmoker
Education: High School, Technical College and Personal Training Certifications
Occupation: Co-Owner of Primal Fitness, a personal training studio with full gym, locker/shower rooms, and an organic coffee and juice bar! I am the only personal trainer for my club at this time!
Income: I'd rather not say.
... on HIMSELF
Drew is a man who ... "thinks of the welfare of others before himself. He finds happiness in all that he does, has lived a full life in 25 years and it is only getting better!"
Views on being a calendar boy: "WOW! A huge compliment to myself and the hard work I have done to get my health/body this far, I think to myself … another dream come true!"
Best qualities: "Honesty about myself and honest in the relationships I am part of (business & friendships)."
Strengths: "One of my best is to be able to humor people and myself in play and when someone needs to laugh!"
Weakness: "The one I’m told most about is my being too nice to people, some take this the wrong way and it has gotten me in hot water! I'm always trying to do too much for everyone at once."
What I see in myself that others may not see: "I see myself sometimes as the 19-year-old (who I once was) who is insecure and not in the shape I am today."
I've been known to ... "be spontaneous and do fun stuff completely out of my professional character!"
Interests: "Reading (Aldous Huxley, Bentley Little, Steven King, History, Human Physiology) mountain biking, walking in flower gardens, movies (the kind that make you think i.e. Magnolia & Old Films), music (all types), taking trips to new places and taking naps."
Turn ons: "Thunder storms, simple gestures (sending flowers), spontaneity, a warm smile and sensitivity. A beautiful woman in hot pursuit of me."
Turn offs: "People who are mean and bad hygiene, yuck!"
Special talents: "Ummm, in what department? ;-) The all too uncommon warm heart and soul."
And the winner is ... "Professional IDEA recognition, 2nd Place in Muscle Mania 2002, 7th Place in Muscle Mania 2001."
Charities: "My club, Primal Fitness, host, sponsors and organizes the annual Breast Cancer Awareness Walk in our city. This year (our first) we raised over $1,000!"
15 minutes of fame: "Being on the Ultimate Men of Hedonism Calendar!"
Travels: "I have traveled to many places in the last three years (compared to none in my younger years), modeling has brought me to San Diego, Los Angeles, Hollywood, Seattle, Denver, Vermont, New York, Jamaica, and Minneapolis."
Spirituality: "I am a spiritual man. I have many beliefs/ideas, but most important to me is to live by the `Golden Rule' or `Karma.' Do unto others as you’d have done to you!"
Fashion sense: "Work: My own club's trainers uniform (very sexy). Casual/Out in public: Dressy but not too dressy (Express for Men). Around the house: Very little on!"
Staying healthy and in shape: "I eat very well (about 60% of my diet is organic foods). I consume 4,000 calories per day to maintain my desired composition, drink lots of water, cardio 4 times per week for 30 minutes, take the proper APEX supplements for my body, resistance training 4 times per week, lots of stretching and rest! I keep my mind healthy and find constructive ways to handle stress."
What touches my soul: "People who do things for others with out wanting something in return."
... on WOMEN
I first notice ... "how she carries herself/. Is she confidant, happy, caring? And of course, her beauty."
How a woman can get my attention: "Eye contact is always very sexy!"
Ideal woman: "A woman who is sure of where she’s been in life and where she wants to be in her future. A woman who is confidant and caring, she’ll have a smile that will melt my heart, she is health conscious but not too health conscious, she must be a little kinky and enjoy trying new things that are beneficial to our friendship/relationship. Honesty is always a great thing, we must have trust and respect. A woman with like qualities as myself, a woman who wants for no one else but me."
I can't resist a woman who ... "Is my ideal woman."
I show I care ... "by the amount of time we share and the variety of wonderful things we do in this shared time. I will write her poems. Send little gifts. I will listen to her needs, disappointments, expectations, wants and frustrations AND I will be supportive of her, always."
A woman made me melt when ... "she sent me flowers!"
Most important quality in a woman: "Honesty!"
Ideal date: "To have dinner in a very classy but casual restaurant (I love sushi & one of a kind restaurants, they are my favorites), to have great conversation and not be aware of time, sharing about each other and not feeling too awkward about being with this new person but rather in awe of each other and who we are as people. In conversation we find many similarities and some differences, all of which we are happy to live with! As time goes on and our check is given, she offers to contribute to our check, I of course thank her and let her know her kind gesture is very much appreciated but I would like to take care of dinner.
After dinner we walk along the shops of the streets and find fun little things to buy for each other, we have so much fun and we know we are meant to be the best of friends and maybe more.
As the evening starts to cool, we sit on a nearby park bench and I cover her with my light dress coat to warm her, we look at the clear sky, count stars and find shapes in the stars and see if the other person can see them too.
Later we walk back to my convertible and I open her car door and hold her hand as she settles into her seat. As I start to walk around to my door, I see her reaching across to open my door, I think to myself `She is incredible!' I drive to a coffee shop, we drink lattes and sit near the fireplace. Great conversation continues to roll from our tongues, we plan our second date and the rest of the evening. As the coffee shop clerk informs us of the time and that they are closing, we head back to the car and we repeat the process of opening the door for each other as we did earlier and smile warmly into each others eyes.
We drive off into the night and as we near her condo she offers to invite me in, I graciously accept, she is trusting me to share her personal space. We continue to share the evening and great conversation, this time over a glass of wine. As dawn approaches we silently fall asleep in one another’s arms."
I would call a woman back after a first date ... "if there is magic and chemistry, we both will want for the evening not to end and we will want to spend endless hours learning about each other, the first date will never end, the romance and magic of a first date will last a lifetime."
I would never date a woman who ... "is high maintenance, arrogant, unkind, selfish or uneducated."
What makes a woman unforgettable: "Her smile and depth of her eyes."
I wish women understood ... "we are truly of a different species than women. We may not (at times) be as understanding as we appear, but we are trying. At least I am!"
One thing a woman has never done for me yet, but I would love it: "Wake me during the early morning or late at night and make love to me."
... on RELATIONSHIPS
Views on relationship/marriage: "I highly recommend marriage and relationship if you are with the right person. With the right person your life will be enhanced in so many positive ways, marriage is the ultimate commitment and should not be taken lightly."
Top relationship keys: "Being able to communicate, through the rough times as well as the good times. Trusting in your partner and their uniqueness. Finding time to spend together, go on dates and do special things. Having a very powerful and intense love life."
My last relationship ... what went wrong: "It went wrong because there was not enough of a connection to make it work, no one's fault, we tried to make it work many times, it just wasn’t meant to be."
A woman who is in a relationship with me can expect ... "my full commitment and dedication to you, your needs, and your uniqueness. I will give full dedication and commitment to `us' and what we need to flourish and be happy as well as understanding and support for your time you need alone and time you need me. Unconditional love."
What I expect: "The same dedication and commitment as I give, it won’t even be a question if you are truly in love with me, we will want to give each other what we need as life partners, best friends and lovers. You will respect my uniqueness and times of need and times I like to be alone. Unconditional love."
When I'm in love, I ... "feel like shouting to the world, `I’m in love!' I feel butterflies in my stomach, all the time! I feel more energized and I am eager to achieve more! I count the seconds until I can see her. I cannot stop thinking about my beautiful girl!"
I feel close to a woman ... "when she knows me and who I am. I do not open up to just anyone, I have to feel like she is a safe place for me to rest my thoughts and ideas, she will not judge me. She will just be understanding and caring."
Greatest relationship lesson: "As time goes on and the relationship is not new anymore, remember why you are with this person and never let the butterflies go away. Work hard to be `in love' all the time."
What makes a woman marriage material: "She is marriage material if she is my ideal woman, she and I have been together for sometime now and the topic of marriage is shared interest, the proposal is of course a surprise, but she must be still, after all this time, as in love with me as I am with her."
... on SEX
Views on sex in a relationship: "This is the most sacred and intimate part you will never share with anyone else. To enjoy each other, to bring pleasure to one another, is not to be taken lightly, when all the magic is there, making love will transport you to magical and wondrous places. This is one of the most important way to show your love for each other. Being close, as with making love, should brings feelings of trust and togetherness as no other act will. To make love will allow for escape, a safe place to let go and to be completely free of negativity."
What puts me in the mood: "Many, many things! Certain articles of clothing (or lack of), waking up on a weekend morning in the nude next to my love who is also nude, rainstorms, working out, relaxing together, massages, bubble baths and the scent of her perfume."
I feel my sexiest ... "after I am finished with my work out, and I have showered and shaved."
Most sensual part of a woman's body is ... "to me is her neck and back, the soft and sensual skin is all to often overlooked."
Sexiest thing a woman can wear in private is ... "her crushed red velvet robe with her hair down …"
Surefire way for a woman to seduce me: "Be playful and sexy at the place of our meeting, she will be obvious of her interest but showing no desperation, batting her eyes, touching her neck and thighs softly will bring me to my knees, not coming on too strong will insure your prey to be caught."
What makes sex good: "The both of us being in the `mood' to pleasure each other to no end, being able to taste the need of my sex on my lovers lips."
Hedonistic side: "I absolutely do have a hedonistic side to me, don't we all?"
… on HIS FAVORITE THINGS
Movie: "It’s A Wonderful Life."
TV Show: "Discovery Channel & Independent Film Channel."
Book: "A Brave New World."
Music: "Depends on my mood. Relaxing: Classical/Oldies. Working out: Techno/Rock. Dancing: Techno/R&B/Rap."
Food: "Sushi and Pasta with Shrimp."
... on LIFE
Making my mark: "Through the privilege of my being a father of an amazing little girl, through teaching her and being in her life, through Primal Fitness, bringing health and self-esteem to all I work with, through being a model of fitness and sharing my life with the special someone who is still out there."
Responsibility to society: "I feel my responsibility to society to be respectful of the law and the other humans who share this world with me."
Valuable life lesson: "Life is full of wonderful surprises, you have never have got it all figured out and you should never stop learning!"
I must ... "#1. See my child grow in great health and prosper. #2. Help as many people as I am able as my success continues to flourish. #3. Find my life partner and share in a healthy, happy, long and prosperous life with her."
Best advice received: "Be true to yourself."
Best advice I've ever given a woman: "To be true to yourself and to never settle for anything less."
... final THOUGHTS
Tattoos/piercing: "I like tattoo’s and somebody piercing, an excess of these can deter from the natural beauty of yourself."
Items always in my refrigerator: "Bottled water, milk, fruits and vegetables."
Hottest possession: "My California King Size Canopy Bed, it is necessary for a good nights rest and …"
Secret fantasy: "To be awoken by my beautiful love pleasuring me and with her hot lips in the most pleasurable of my body parts …"
I would change places for 24 hours with ... "Brad Pitt."
I would most like to hang out with ... "Brad Pitt."
Why I'm such a great catch: "I look like Brad Pitt! Really … my sense of humor, integrity, honesty and continuously finding creative ways to better my life and all share in it."
Me in a word: "Primal."
Last words: "Allow yourself to experience life to the fullest (honestly and safely). Be true to yourself and others. Do not settle for anything less than you have worked for or deserve. Great things will come to those who give great things. Be sure to be happy for yourself, work hard to achieve great things for yourself and others. I know my perfect love is out there and she will find me, we will find each other."
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