Charities: "Every few years I work with orphanages in Vietnam. Locally, I volunteer w/ local foster camps and feed the homeless at the Salvation army. Highly involved in nonprofit and Christian ministries."

My 15 Minutes: "Being a model, God has blessed me with quite a bit of exposure."

Travels: "Spent some time in Switzerland & Europe, Southeast Asia, Mexico, all over the U.S., etc.”

Spirituality: "To me, it's not about the 'religion' per se, but the relationship between you and God. If you truly love God, you will live your life accordingly. I am a very strong Christian and hold the fundamental values that Christianity hold, i.e. salvation by grace, etc. - but, as Christianity holds and is different from the others in that its not about this religion that imposes these rules on you that you HAVE to follow in order to get to heaven, but the reason Christians do the things we do is out of Love. Love for our God. I like to consider myself spiritual and in love w/ God, not religious. Just like being in love w/ someone else. The reason you do things for them is out of your love for them, not because you have to. If you had to, what would be the point?”

Fashion Sense: "I like variety.  Maybe for a night out or generally on a daily basis (when I’m not in a suit for work): Diesel jeans, international male top, boots, edged out hair – or maybe another night my brown cowboy boots (I’m not a cowboy), suede jacket, diesel jeans, fitted t-shirt, and ball cap.  Otherwise, I love wearing my boardshorts and flip-flops when I'm on the sand volleyball courts!"

Staying Healthy: "I workout 4 – 5 days p/ week.  Usually weights/abs/cardio.  I love outdoor activities also, i.e., being in the mountains, hiking, snowboarding, etc."

What touches my soul: "God, children and kind people."

... on WOMEN 

I first notice ... "I'll admit, her aesthetics, then demeanor. But there are plenty of attractive women out there, they have to have a heart and head to match."

A woman can get my attention ... "simply by engaging me."

Dream Girl: "She has to love grilled-cheese sandwiches (J), Heart for God, attractive, active, willing to try just about anything (after she's tried it and doesn't enjoy it, no problem - but at least give it an honest shot until then), DOWN-TO-EARTH, will love luxury, but also be able to humble herself to poverty, i.e. likes nice things, but can do w/out or can sleep on the floor of an orphanage w/ the children but still likes to put on her Diesel jeans, confident in herself - yet not conceited - humble, with tons of great qualities is awesome, and intelligent (she doesn't have to 'know' everything, but at least be able to hear a basis about an issue and then develop her own basis!).  Does she exist?  I have had a few head-over-heels experiences.  You’d have to know me well to understand why this one crush seemed so ideal.  She was a nurse that works at a children’s hospital, in the sister sorority to my fraternity, same religion, good family upbringing, down-to-earth, well-dressed, good friend to her friends, athletic, gorgeous, great age spread, and fun!

I can't resist a woman who ... "has all of the above."

I show I care ... "by spending time with her and her family - lots."

One thing a woman has done for me that has made me melt: "One friend sent this great little gift, completely random and for no reason: she individually wrapped 60 or so little scrolls - each scroll had a saying on it (which I live off of - whether they be bits of wisdom on life, relationships, leadership) sprayed perfume all over it, threw in a few cute books on friendship, etc. …and wrapped it all up with a bow. The randomness, thought, and amount of time put into it is why it was so special."

Most important quality in a woman: "Truly kind and loving heart for God."

What makes a woman unforgettable: "Her ability to solely engage me and not be distracted by others around."

Ideal Date: "After the Broadway show, go somewhere to Dance.  After dancing, cuddle up to a good flick….or maybe, just a walk on a secluded beach w/ dinner and a great conversation.”

I'd call a woman back after first date ... "if we had a good time!"

I would never date a woman who ... "was really mean."

I wish women understood ... "I tell this to both sexes … or when my girlfriends complain to me about so and so - I always ask them, `Have you told this to him?' They usually respond, `Well ... he should know.' But many times, he has no idea. Why? Because a man (or woman for that matter), doesn't always know. Work on the issues together."

One thing a woman has never done for me: "Take me on the 'ideal' date that I explained above."

... on RELATIONSHIPS 

On Marriage: "I definitely want to get married (Lord willing) … why? I want to be able to grow old with somebody. I want to become a part of her life and have her be the world to me."

Top Relationship Keys: "God at the center is #1, communication x3, and the nature of the person.  The nature of the person is imperative…for me, it has to be one that is very kind.”

My last breakup ... what went wrong: "Her lack of confidence in herself. If I am with her, I have chosen to be with her. Regardless if I have several friends that model also or whatever, she is who I have chosen."

A woman in a relationship with me can expect ... "quality conversations, belief that I will support her in whatever dreams she wants to pursue and help her attain those goals, involvement with family, good balance of activity and lots of hanging out."

What I Expect: "All those above."

When I'm in love, ... "I’ll give her my heart and soul.”

What makes me feel close to a woman: "Being able to not say a word for a period of time and still feel oh so comfortable."

Greatest Relationship Lesson: "Don’t try to solve a woman’s problem.  Men always try to ‘fix’ things and give her solutions.  Not only listen, but just validate and clarify what she is saying.  For example, “So when so and so did this to you, this is how you felt?…letting her solve her own problem.  She doesn’t want you to solve it – just be there.  But by clarifying, you’re able to do more than just listen – you’re able to empathize.  In a sense, you’re kind of just repeating what she says, not agreeing or disagreeing, just empathizing and letting her work out her problem as your discussion progresses.”

What makes a woman marriage material: "The description of my ideal woman fits."

... on SEX

How important is sex in a relationship: "I've committed to waiting until marriage."

... on HIS FAVORITE THINGS

Movie: "Good Will Hunting."

TV Show: "Friends."

Book: "Bible."

Music: "David Crowder Band."

Food: "Italian."

... on LIFE

Making My Mark: "Lord willing, becoming a voice in the corporate world through my current company.  I’d like to run an aspect of their global operations division.  Through my corporate influence and talents, my end goal is always touching those less fortunate - non-profits, orphanages, charities - internationally touching lives in India, Africa, China and Vietnam.  Right now, I really enjoy working w/ local foster children, feeding the homeless, and serving on medical/philanthropy missions to SE Asia.”

Responsibility to Society: "See above."

Valuable Life Lesson: "One must have dreams and goals. It's those dreams and goals that pull you out of bed everyday, being able to face the many challenges and trials that your life will face, but still have hope in your Lord that all will be well. Dreams and goals … I can't express their importance enough."

I must ... "publish my book, titled ‘Grilled Cheese Sandwiches’ – it’s about life."

Best Advice Received: "Love is a decision."

Best Advice I've Given a Woman: "As I had mentioned before, tell HIM how you feel, not just all of your friends. Don't always assume he knows … because he is going to believe what he wants to believe, especially since many times his perception about how things are going can be much different from yours."

... final THOUGHTS

Wheels: "My company SUV.”

Pets: "Beta fish. His name is 'Fuego.'  I’m allergic to cats and long-hair dogs.  I’m sure I'll have some in the future.  I tell myself that I'll just be the kind of Dad that once his kids bring home a little puppy, I'll probably give in and say they can keep it."

Tattoos/piercings: "One tattoo on my right arm, Japanese congi that stands for Courage. The 3 Marine Corps values are honor, courage, and commitment."

Always in my Refrigerator: "Fruit (energy), eggs (protein) … I don't know, lots of random stuff I guess."

Hottest Possession: "I’m not too materialistic and can give up anything I have."

Secret Fantasy: "Dating a European Princess…. or just my ideal woman.  Anything else, I can work for."

I would like to change places for 24 hours with ... "The prince of a European Country – probably England."

I would most like to hang out with ... "I love spending time at my Grandparents – when my entire family is there – they’re all such goofs!  We have so many family parties….a party for any reason in the world it seems like.  God has blessed me with many, quality, quality friends. I like spending time with my sis and bro especially."

Celeb I would love to take on a date: "Lindsey Lohan."

Why I'm such a great catch: "My great big heart. I always think of others first – even to my discomfort."

Me in a word: "Passionate."

Last Words: "You only go through this life once and if you only live for yourself, why were you even here?  It’s about touching other’s lives through your life – whether it be feeding the homeless around the corner at the salvation army or administering care to orphans in Vietnam or Africa. We are called to be His hands and feet on earth.  Living in America, we have such a greater responsibility to help others.  True happiness comes when we can take our focus off of ourselves and not just look at our situations. I think the best cure for depression is not medicine, but service and focus on others. When you’re truly involved in others’ lives, you don’t have time to look down on your situation.”