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Jason
... the FACTS
Resides: San Francisco, CA
Birth date: 7-28-72
Sign: Leo
Height: 6’2"
Hair: Brown
Eyes: Brown
Family: 1 Younger brother
Status: Never married, no children
Occasional smoker
Education: Bachelors of Arts in communications;
Master of arts in English from NYU.
Occupation: I
sell wines and liquor. Great gig. Director of Sales -
San Francisco.
... on HIMSELF
Jason is a man who ... "motivates and teaches others to see the goodness in life."
Best qualities: "Enthusiastic, loving, encouraging."
Strengths: "Outgoing, athletic, spontaneous, loving. I would do anything for my friends."
Weakness: "At times, a select listener. I'll kind of zone out sometimes, but I'm lucky enough that I can tune in just enough to be dangerous again."
Others may not see: "Faithfulness toward others. Those who know me really well know how faithful, almost to a fault, I am to my friends."
I've been known to ... "be the life of the party. I'll show you fun. When I walk into a party, I'll be the first one to ask all the questions about yourself."
Interests: "Family, sports, travel, reading, observing. My biggest interest right now is that I'm an uncle for the first time and I can't get enough of my niece."
Turn ons: "Those who are alert to life’s unexpected circumstances challenges. I trip out on experiencing life. It's such a cliche
but life is worth living. Honest people. Fall turns me on, when leaves start changing colors, there's a briskness in the air and it's football season too. It's the start of winter, I think fall is a special time of the year."
Turn offs: "Know-it-alls! Terrorism. Not many things turn me off because
I'm pretty much an eternal optimist. Traffic drives me crazy, people who can't drive and long lines."
Special talents: "I can slam dunk a basketball. I have an innate ability to bridge people together."
Awards, Titles: "Student Vice President in college."
Charities: "Coach Bay Area Special Olympics in Basketball. "
15 minutes of fame: "Episode 1 of the Bachelor II."
Travels: "25 States and about a dozen European countries."
Spirituality: "I believe in the Holy Spirit. I was raised Catholic. I went to a Catholic college. I'm more spiritual than religious."
Fashion sense: "Keen. I'm a clothes horse, Not that I'm a yuppie snob but like when buying shoes, I'm going to buy Kenneth Cole shoes. I like the way they look. Jeans and Converse shoes most of the time. Active casual. I definitely dress more fashionable than most 23-year-olds."
Staying Healthy: "See my profession. I run 20 miles a week. I do 1000 pushups a week. I eat out every night. I watch what I eat. I eat a lot of rice, a lot of fruit. Again, I'm on the road a lot and on the go, so you do the best you can."
What touches my soul: "Music, art, honesty. You know what touches me actually is doing volunteer work. It brings me back to reality. We're so gifted with things we have and things we've accomplished, just being healthy, seeing and hearing. Doing volunteer work at the Special Olympics or helping the blind out in San Francisco, I'm also a Big Brother. What touches me is volunteering my time and my life to others."
... on WOMEN
I first notice ... "her body language. One of my favorite words in the English dictionary describing a woman is someone who's got some moxie, an unspoken kind of essence or body language. Someone who has confidence in herself and it reflects sometimes by the way they walk and interact. There's a certain amount of confidence that exudes from someone's body
language."
A woman can get my attention ... "with intelligence. That's the only way She's got to be intelligent, she's got to challenge me intellectually, but not to the point where it becomes know-it-all. You can know right away if you're talking to a ding bat or someone who has a head on her shoulders."
Ideal woman: "She's got to be low maintenance. She's got to be a `come as you are' kind of girl. Someone who is willing to go camping or mountain biking but also someone who is willing to go to a dinner party and have fun. She's got to be athletic and I'm not talking about running triathlons and having a hard body, but it's someone who just takes care of themselves and goes for a walk or a jog. And I don't want a smoker. She's got to be educated. Not necessarily with degrees, it could be with life experiences. I don't want somebody who's been around the block, but I want somebody who's walked the block a little bit. And if I had my druthers, I want somebody who is very
care giving, selfless and who reaches out to others. Sense of humor is a huge thing for me too, she's got to make me laugh."
I can't resist a woman who ... "loves children."
How I show I care: "It's circumstantial but I guess if there was a pattern. To show a girl that I cared about her would ultimately be maybe take her to my parent's house. She'll just know by the way I do things, open doors, be a gentleman, but doing it with a realness not because I have to."
Most important quality in a woman: "Intelligence/
responsible. I can't date somebody who is not responsible and that comes from intelligence. They've got to be responsible for their lives. They have to be able to make a decision and look for the consequences, good or bad. I don't like the girl when we go to dinner, and she'll say, `whatever you want.' I want someone who has some ideas and who is responsible for their actions and their decision."
Ideal date: "A first date would always be going to lunch. An ideal date in the city at nighttime for me is usually at my house for wine and hor's doeuvres which I'll make homemade, then we'll go to dinner and then we'll go out and meet with friends. I like to incorporate my friends on my dates because they're usually with their friends. If it's a serious girl I like a lot, then the quicker she can get involved with my circle of friends and vice versa with her circle of friends, it's easier to acclimate to each other. I'm not a big movie/dinner kind of guy, that's for a rainy night."
What makes me call a woman back after a first date: "She has to, in my mind, pass certain criteria. I'll never take a girl out for a second night who I know I'll never date exclusively because we're fooling each other unless I'm in one of those modes in my life where I want to date around. Other than that, if I go out on a second date, it's someone I want to take more seriously. With that said, it's somebody who's responsible, athletic,
care giving, who has a head on her shoulders which is more important than anything. And someone my parents can approve of, ultimately it's up to me but your parents raised you a certain way, I don't think they'd want me dating someone they would not approve of."
I'd never date a woman who ... "is not compassionate toward others."
What makes a woman unforgettable: "A scent of a woman can make me not forget her but I would think if somebody can make me laugh, that's somebody who is unforgettable. That's a rare quality to find. A lady who has enough moxie to really strike up a conversation and be spontaneous with laughter."
I wish women understood ... "men can be very sensitive."
... on RELATIONSHIPS
Views on relationship/marriage: "I'm for marriage 100%. I want to have children. It's just a matter of timing. I do aspire to be a husband and a father."
Top relationship keys: "Trust and honesty."
A woman in a relationship with me can expect ... "spontaneity and goodness. A lot of fun. I love to have fun so why not share that type of lifestyle and that type of mentality. Women feel safe around me, warm around me and positive about who they are."
What I expect: "Mutual respect. That encompasses honesty and trust."
When I'm in love, ... "beyond the physical attraction and spiritual attraction, I feel as though I've found a best friend. Someone I want to experience and express things with. I haven't been in love in a while but that's what it is to me."
Greatest relationship lesson: "Always tell the truth."
What makes a woman marriage material: "A good family background and spiritual direction. Someone who is responsible for her life, someone who has a head on her shoulders, and who has motherly qualities."
... on SEX
What makes sex good: "Physical and mental compatibility. When you're so into them, instead of sex, you're making love. There's always a chase, an encounter, a moment in time where you know on both ends of the spectrum, you know something's going to happen and that's the exciting moment. It could be sharing eye contact across a room."
I feel my sexiest when ... "I feel good about myself. That's true of everybody. I think there certain parts of a day where things are going for you in a certain way, and you feel good about yourself."
Most sensual part of a woman's body: "Legs and teeth (smile)."
Sexiest thing a woman can wear in private:."My boxers and a T-shirt. That's great. I love it."
Surefire way to seduce me: "With her eyes. A woman who's got powerful eyes. A glance or a real hard stare. That, to me, is seducing because it goes with that `I want you' mentality. She wants something and she goes after it."
... on HIS FAVORITE THINGS
Movie: "All believable ones, namely Rudy and Hoosiers."
TV Show: "Cheers and SportsCenter."
Book: "All Hemingway novels and Seabiscuit."
Music: "Classic / Alternative Rock and R&B."
Food: "Italian."
... on LIFE
Making my mark: "Teach others to forgive by my actions whether it be through love, competition or life."
Responsibility to society: "To live in peaceful harmony and to truly treat others how they would like to be treated."
Valuable life lesson: "Be good to your family and friends, ALWAYS. Be forgiving and know that is some cases, nothing lasts forever."
I must ... "do what makes me happy, have a healthy family, live to witness both."
Best advice received: "Be yourself."
Best advice I've given a woman: "Be yourself."
... final THOUGHTS
Wheels: "Jeep."
Pets: "Not at the moment though I am a huge dog-lover."
Tattoos/piercings: "NO."
Always in my refrigerator: "Milk, yogurt, ice, vodka, frozen raviolis, chocolate chip cookie dough ice cream, salami, salsa, orange juice. I'll show you bachelor."
Hottest possession: "My Masters Degree from NYU."
I'd change places for 24 hours with ... "George Clooney. He's got a lot of things I admire. He seems to be a guy who's down-to-earth. I enjoy the way he carries himself, although that might be all image. I don't think he's afraid of being a bachelor his whole like."
I'd most like to hang out with ... "Muhammad Ali. I think in his time he'd be a real cool cat to hang out with. He was a world champion. When you're the champ, that meant something back in the 60s and 70s. I think he's a very witty man. Being an African American man in the 60s and doing the things he did and saying the things he said which was against the norm, he kind of revolutionized things."
Celeb I'd like to take on a date: "Elizabeth Hurley. She would be cool to hang out with for a night. She has elegant qualities to her, the way she carries herself. And I wouldn't screw her over like `what's his name did.' That guy was an idiot. He's a good actor, but what was he thinking? I find her very attractive. Katie Holmes is more my age. She's number one. She's got it going on a little bit."
Why I'm a great catch: "I feel I am a person of great substance. I have a lot of God-given abilities to be a good father, a good listener, a good husband. I've been well schooled in those certain areas to really be a good catch for somebody. I'm responsible. I have a lot of free time because I own my own company. I have a lot of liberties to spend a lot of time with somebody. I'm financially secure which is important, not necessarily to be a good catch, but to go the extra mile."
Me in a word: "Impressionable."
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