"I'd like to be in a relationship," says 32-year-old Kevin. "Relationships are healthy; you need somebody who you can talk to about your day and about what's going on inside you." This 6'1" Chippendale performer, who just purchased his first home and appears nightly at The Rio, enjoys "old hot rods, Harleys, working out and movies." When not traveling with the Chippendale European tour, this blue-eyed Libra donates his time to charities that benefit homeless or abused children. What type of woman can catch this blue-eyed Libra's eye: "I can't resist a woman," says Kevin, "who is smart, talented and sexy."

... the FACTS

Resides: Las Vegas, NV 

Birthdate: 10-10-72

Sign: Libra

Height: 6'1"

Weight: 200 lbs.

Hair: Long blonde hair

Eyes: Blue

Family: Only child 

Status: Never married, no children

Occupation: Chippendales stage performer

Calendar Boy: 1st runner up at Hedonism calendar contest. Also in the Chippendales calendar - been in it for the last 3 years.

Nonsmoker

... on HIMSELF

Kevin is a man who ... "is not really a planner. As things come up, I go with them. I like to travel, I hate patterns, I like variety in my life."

Best Qualities: "I'm extremely laid back. There's not much that ever really angers me. I always like to look at the reverse side of things first. I'm in great physical shape. I'm a really good friend. I'm always there for my friends. I won't do anything to somebody that I wouldn't like done to myself."

Strengths: "I'm always there for my friends."

Weakness: "I like to party. I like to have a good time. I like to travel and see the world." 

Others may not see: "My close friends pretty much know me. The people who see me in my professional life definitely see something different then who I really am. When I'm up on stage and doing what I do, they see just sensuality come across on stage, a performer who's larger than life. Bu if you get to know me, I'm really a shy person. From what I do on stage, people don't seem to believe that I'm a shy person or that I'm really down to earth. They're really surprised by that."

I've been known to... "party really late and really long. I'm nocturnal, I'm up to the crack of dawn. I'm a night owl. When I go out to party, I'm partying all night long, I don't stop short. I've also been known to get up and take off on a whim."

Interests: "I love old hot rods, Harleys, working out, movies. I just bought a new house so it's kind of like a hobby trying to create it right now. I have this huge house and no furniture so my new hobby is putting it together." 

Turn Ons: "Smiles, I love when women smile. I'm an ass mans. Outgoing people who are not close-minded. Because what I do is a little bit different from the normal job so I have to have open-minded people whom I date."

Turn Offs: "Close-mindedness and negativity. I hate negativity, it drives me nuts. I will not deal with people who are negative, who can't see the brighter side to anything, it's a huge turn off." 

Special Talents: "Our show requires dancing, I'm a fairly decent dancer. I can do choreography. I can speak minimal German."

And the winner is ... "I won a few trophies in high school for football, baseball, basketball, soccer."

Charities: "The charities that I have been involved with are mostly Aids and Homeless or Abused Children. I've donated a lot of my time in performance aspects with charities that raise money. Sometimes through Chippendales, we'll have opportunities to raise money for charities. I just really feel that children have no control over their surroundings, they're stuck with where their parent or guardian puts them. People who mistreat children are the worst thing in the world because children only know what they're given or seeing and for somebody to do them wrong is absolutely horrible."

15 minutes of fame: "I've been in newspapers, magazines, many radio shows. Recently, I was on the Anna Nicole Show and The Other Half."

Travels: "I lived in NY, Los Angeles, St. Louis and traveled all over Europe, N. America and just about all 50 states." 

Spirituality: "I'm more spiritual, not really religious. I'm really into karma, things of that nature. The wrongdoings you do are going to come back on you. If I'm doing people wrong or the world wrong, I know it's going to come back to me somehow, I just try not to affect the flow."

Fashion sense: "It's probably terrible. I'm kind like a rocker. My friends call me Kid Rock. I wear jeans and wife beaters. I can dress up if I have to but a lot of times, I'm just wearing sweats and sleeveless shirts. I like to be comfortable."

Staying Healthy: "I definitely diet a lot." 

What touches my soul: "I've been all over and seen a lot of things so it takes a lot to really affect me or surprise me. However, children really affect me."

... on WOMEN

Attention Getters: "What catches my eye, first thing, is usually hair. It's not that it's long hair or short hair, it's just that the hair fits the woman. Hair, face and intelligent conversation is a must." 

Ideal woman: "A lot of girls think that they have to live up to the type of fitness program that I'm on or the shape that I am in and it's not true. They have to be in decent shape. They definitely need to be light hearted, open-minded with a good sense of humor who likes to go out and experience new things. It drives me nuts to go to the same restaurant all the time. I like to try new restaurants. If you happen to see a road that goes up in the mountains, take off and go up that road. I love movies so hopefully she likes movies." 

I can't resist a woman who ... "is smart, talented and sexy."

I show a woman I care ... "by doing romantic things, as long as I know what the woman enjoys. I am romantic. I would fill the room up with candles. My house has a huge bathtub, I would fill it up with bubble bath and have it ready for her when she got home. I cook all the time because of the way I eat so I'm not opposed to cooking her dinner." 

A woman made me melt ... "I actually came home one time and there were rose petals everywhere and the candles were lit. There was chilled wine and great music playing. It was really nice. She planned out the whole evening, it was really cool. She was in my room, on the bed, with just rose petals. It was pretty hot."

Most important quality in a woman: "Good sense of humor and an open mind."

Ideal date: "I love the beach, I love Mexico. A great date to me is going someplace I haven't been before and being with somebody new and just doing something brand new." 

What makes a woman unforgettable: "I think each woman has their own special qualities in what makes them them. Usually whatever makes that woman who she is, is what makes her unforgettable." 

I wish women understood ... "that men are more than just the cover page. A lot of guys may come off as what you see is what you get but I think there's definitely more to a lot of guys." 

... on RELATIONSHIPS

On relationships/marriage: "I'd absolutely like to be in a relationship. For me, it's really difficult. I just think relationships are healthy. You need somebody who you can talk to about your day and about what's going on inside you. It's difficult when most of the time the people who I meet are seeing me in the show. Honestly, I don't believe in marriage, because I'm not religious. (My parents were divorced when I was 3 and they're both remarried and I don't know that they're both working out). I think that two people can be together without signing a piece of paper that says they have to be together. I haven't had a long-term relationship in a long time actually, since I've had this job. I meet a lot of women but the women who I meet see me on stage and they perceive me as something different from who I really am." 

On being a player: "I play around but compared to some of the guys I work with, I'm definitely not a player. I like to have relationships but they just usually don't last very long. People are just very insecure with themselves. My schedule's pretty busy as it is, I try to get out once in a while." 

Top Relationship Keys: "Honesty and openness. I hate to lie because I hate being lied to."

A woman in a relationship with me can expect ... "to be pleased. I like to find out what a woman likes, what things she enjoys. I like to take them places that they want to go or do things that they want to do. I like to find out about them. I like to please my women. I don't know that I'd say I'm a perfectionist but I strive for higher always. Not that I'm never satisfied but I'm never satisfied more or less with myself - I'm always looking to strive for higher. I don't like to plateau and plane off. She can also expect fun and spontaneity."

What I expect: "If I give trust, I expect trust. I don't like people checking up on me and digging into my shit, that drives me nuts. If you don't trust me, then I can't trust you and we don't need that kind of relationship. Expectations, for me, are really low. I hate to expect anything of anybody."

When I'm in love ... "the other person definitely knows it." 

Greatest Relationship Lesson: "You have to be able to trust but don't be blind. Just pay attention to what's going in the relationship." 

... on SEX

What puts me in the mood: "Anything. It could be something that she does that day or the way she looks or just having a great day. Period."

I feel my sexiest when ... "I'm on stage." 

On having a hedonistic side: "Yeah, maybe not as crazy as some people get but yeah, absolutely." 

Besides the bedroom, my favorite place to have sex: "Either the shower or the pool." 

What makes sex good: "When both people enjoy it." 

... on HIS FAVORITE THINGS

Movie: "As Good As It Gets."

Music: "I listen to just about everything except for country and classical."

Food: "I'm always on a diet but I love to eat ice cream when I can. My favorite is cinnamon. It's really hard to find it."

Season: "Summer."

... on LIFE

Making My Mark: "I'm thinking I'm making a pretty decent mark as far as what I've been doing but I definitely want to make another one. I'd like to own my business, own my own bar, something that does really well."

Responsibility to Society: "I don't know if it's a responsibility or I hate to say a service but with the job that I do, it is what I think women need. We try to help women realize their fantasies and I don't think women get to do that enough in their relationships. It's something I don't think men understand as well - that women have fantasies - they get mad about them coming to see our show but women sometimes see our show and imagine their men in our situation. I think women need to realize their fantasies more often and enjoy sexuality more. I think that's what our show does." 

Valuable Life Lesson: "You got to enjoy as much as possible, there's no reason to be pissed off all the time, there's no reason to not be happy. You really have to enjoy as many moments as possible."

What I try to get out of life every day: "A new moment and a new experience."

I must ... "work as hard as possible to realize any dream you have. Travel is very important, it's a huge world but it's small at the same time so see as much possible. Don't forget your family and where you came from."

Best advice I've received: "Just be who you are." 

Best advice I've given a woman: "If something is really bad, get away from it. If you think it can work, work on it. But go a different way about it than you have been already, because obviously something's not working." 

... final THOUGHTS

Nicknames: "Everybody calls me Doc."

Pets: "Working on a saltwater fish tank."

Always in my refrigerator: "Meat, chicken, turkey, beef, raspberry lemonade Crystal Lite, usually always beer."

Hottest possession: "I love my car and I love my house. I have a huge collection of shot glasses from a lot of the places I've ever been. I've got drum sticks and guitar pics from the bands that I've seen." 

Secret fantasy: "I don't think I have a secret fantasy. I like to kind of make up things as I go. I've fulfilled all of my fantasies so far. If I had musical talent, I'd love to be up on stage and playing music." 

Me, a deserted island and ... "Heidi Klum's pretty hot. Nicole Kidman, I like her. Either or, I don't think they'd mix together."

I would like to change places for 24 hours with ... "nobody, I really enjoy my life." 

I would most like to hang out with ... "I don't know that's it's any one person, but probably some of the bands that I listen to, because I really enjoy music. Like Metallica or Suicidal Tendacies."

Why I'm such a great catch: "I don't know that I am but just because I've done and seen a lot of interesting stuff. I take good care of myself and I always strive for higher." 

Me in a word: "Laid-back, easygoing."