"What I love most about being in a relationship
is the experience of getting to know the many layers of a
person that comes only with time."
As the founding hosts and passionate storytellers of the
Emmy-winning Current TV, launched by Al Gore, Max along with
his best friend Jason, are redefining journalism and New
Media. Hailing from
New York
, Max, with a double major in film and psychology and two
years of pre-med, is also a singer/songwriter and working on
his first album. Philanthropic, current, and always one step
ahead of the curve, both Max and Jason were featured as part
of the GAP, Fall 2008 "ICONS" print campaign
worldwide.
... the FACTS
Born:
NYC
Resides: LA, CA
Birth date: 5-29-82
Sign: Gemini
Height: 6'2"
Weight: 185 lbs.
Hair: Dirty blonde/light brown
Eyes: Green
Family: Two younger brothers, Andrew and Ben. Parents
divorced. My mom is in NY, my dad is in Miami.
Ethnicity: I think I'm a mutt basically. I'm probably a mix
of a little bit of Russian, German, Polish.
Status:
Never married, no children
Want children: Undecided
Nonsmoker
Education: Bachelor's Degree - film and psychology from the
University of Miami. For the first two years of college
though I was premed. I love the study of the human body and
all its complexities."
Did you want to be a doctor: "I wasn't sure. When I was
in 9th grade, I was obsessed with virology, of all things,
the study of viruses. I don't know why. My whole life I've
gotten really into certain things for different periods of
my life so medicine is just one of the things that I just
really am into."
"I studied film because I've always been really
inspired by the work of certain filmmakers and I guess I
wanted to be responsible for inspiring people the way
certain films have inspired me. It was kind of like a broad
decision. When I was in film school, I realized that I
prefer the immediacy of video. It proved to be a really good
outlet for me creatively, much more so than film."
Occupation: Host of Current TV. Producer, Journalist,
Filmmaker, Singer, Songwriter.
Has being on Current TV changed you: "I definitely feel
like it's changed me for the better. I can't say that I had
a interest in politics and international affairs before my
work at Current TV as much as I do now. I'm definitely a lot
more well versed on foreign policy and politics and very
critical issues that are facing our time. And I really love
being so informed and also informing other people. Before
this, I was probably a lot more in my own world whereas
currently my whole career is based on informing and being
informed on the world at large and I really love that."
"I get informed by the multitude of topics that I
introduce on the network every day. If there's something
that I don't understand, it's part of my nature to go and
google it. I'm a very curious person that way and I want to
be as informed as possible, particularly when I'm addressing
Current TV's audience. We introduce a ton of topics every
day and it's part of our job to read the news every day and
to stay relatively ahead of the curve. We are current,
that's why we were hired. They saw in us an embodiment of
the passionate storyteller that we were ultimately seeming
to empower and part of that is I guess the fact that we're
passionate about a lot of different things. Where I'm sort
of lacking in knowledge in certain departments, there's
Jason, and where he is, I am."
You're also a singer/songwriter: "I recently have found
music the way that some people find a deity. For me, it's
been one of the most fulfilling things I've ever discovered
in my life. So right there it's proven to me that the world
is sort of your oyster. I sing and play guitar. I'm working
on putting together an EP which is very exciting. I haven't
always been a musician. I started playing guitar four years
ago and I started singing even less. I enjoy it like crazy
and if we're not making ourselves happy in whichever way
that it takes while we're on this planet, then what else is
there?"
... on HIMSELF
Strengths: "I'm incredibly driven and totally believe
that I can do whatever it is that I want, no matter how
insane. I've accomplished a lot of my most grandiose dreams
with this attitude. I almost like it when people doubt me,
because those that doubt me don't know me very well. My
friends would probably say I'm outgoing. I'm definitely a
pragmatist. I'm less philosophical than I used to be. It's
worked very well for me to stay grounded and be objective
about a lot of things, which is good."
Weaknesses: "I can be impatient and a bit selfish. Some
people say that I can live in my own world sometimes. I
don't personally say that that's a bad thing. I'm a good
friend but I wish I could juggle all the many different
relationships that I have better, perhaps."
Others may not see: "Emotional sensitivity ... It does
leak through in my music though."
Do you come across as not as sensitive as you are inside:
"Well, going back to one of your earlier questions,
Jason is a guy who wears his heart on his sleeve. Me, I'm
not one to give it away. I have to trust a person and know
that I like them first before ... the music has been
an amazing outlet for me. My songs so far are all about
heartbreak."
Have you had your heart broken: "Absolutely."
I've been known to ... "put blood, sweat and tears into
that which I want to accomplish. But I always come out
ahead."
Interests: "Music, film, technology, health, women,
animal rights. I work out and I'm really into health and
nutrition but I suck at sports. I've never ever been good at
sports. I like hedonism. I like good music, hot tubs and
wine."
Turn-ons: "A killer smile, affection, a good kisser and
a girl who is health conscious. I also love straight hair.
When I'm playing on stage, there's nothing greater. Playing
on stage to me is like better than sex, it's like an hour
long orgasm."
Turn-offs: "Smoking and a girl who is indecisive with
her feelings. I hate smoking. I can't date a girl who
doesn't have an appreciation for her body and health. A girl
who loves animals is a major plus. I would never date a
girl, for example, who wore fur."
Charities: "I'm a Leader on CauseCast which helps to
raise money via small donations to any number of charitable
causes."
15 minutes of fame: "Well, I'm on TV every day, so fame
doesn't really impress me as much as it used to. But I do
feel very special these days when someone notices my music
:)"
Travels: "I've been to London once, many Caribbean islands,
and all over the States."
Spirituality: "Seeker. I've liked the writings of
Krishnamurti for as long as I can remember. He's a
writer/guru/philosopher. He's a writer who's core teachings
can be summed up by saying Truth is a Pathless Land. When I
was growing up, his writings meant a lot to me, because for
the first time I realized that you actually don't have to
subscribe to whatever religion you were raised with or your
friends follow. Truth is a very subjective thing, you know.
And I really like that idea because in the moment, truth can
be love, truth can be affection, truth can be intimacy with
someone special. And by truth I mean, like a feeling of
enlightenment and inter connectedness and transcendence so
he basically just articulated that. Only through the inner
reflection of oneself, can you really come to what truth is.
I just thought that was great. To get to truth, you can't
follow the path that somebody walked before you, it's got to
be forged for yourself and figured out on your own
right."
Fashion sense: "I like Diesel, Gap and Jockey white
V-neck T's. I can pretty much guarantee that I can pick an
outfit that works for me from those options."
Staying healthy: "Eating healthy, working out
occasionally. Never any white/processed carbs! I rarely,
rarely do unless I'm like backed into a corner and I'm
starving and it's the only thing there for me to eat. I'll
generally go to pretty great lengths to make sure that I'm
only eating brown rice and 100& whole wheat. We have a
gym in our building.
What touches my soul: "Passion with a voice and a
guitar."
... on WOMEN
I first notice ... "her energy, her smile, body, and
then whether or not she notices me."
Attention-getters: "Just come up and say hi! Or make
eye contact with me from across the room ... more than once.
You can always tell when a girl makes eye contact with you
more than once or holds eye contact in a club. If I find
then to be attractive, I'll go up and say hello. And when I
say hello, she's got to be receptive. I've already taken the
leap of faith and made the bold move to walk up so then
basically putting the ball in her court She can either be
cool and responsive or not, and then I'll walk away. I hate
standoffishness."
Ideal woman: "Stability, positive attitude towards
health, wellness and animals. Kind, beautiful and with a
genuine smile. Good taste in music, conversational."
I can't resist a woman who ... "is beautiful, kind,
feminine, confident and can hold a conversation. If she
happens to like my music, that's a big plus. :)"
Most important quality in a woman: "Kindness."
Because that is what I think is my mom's best quality and my
mom is a very kind person.
Ideal date: "A light, healthy dinner followed by lots
of wine in a scenic place with great decor where I happen to
know the owner. Great brownie points there."
I'd call a woman back after a first date ... "no matter
what if it was a great date. If the girl has all the traits
that I require, i.e., she's cool, she has a positive
attitude toward health and towards animals. We vibe really
well, the conversation is good and if I find her to be
completely gorgeous, for sure I'll be obsessed. Looks are
important."
I'd never date a woman who ... "smoked, or didn't like
animals. Also, who wears a lot of make-up. Not a fan of
makeup."
How I show I care: "She'll know! I'm very affectionate.
I just love cute beautiful little moments with a girl that
I'm into. Sunday mornings, the little things, the in between
times. I love sitting on the same side of a table as the
girl that I'm dating so that I can have my arm around her as
we eat or drink coffee. The best is when you're really into
somebody and between every other word or sip or bite you can
just lean over and give them a kiss."
What makes a woman unforgettable: "Confidence and
femininity. It's a fine and difficult balance, but some
girls pull it off, and those are the girls."
I wish women understood ... "that we need our space and
alone time, and it's nothing personal when we take it. It's
essential for us. It's like a recharging period. I just feel
that it's a need of every guy to sort of be on their own and
retreat into their, this is going to sound cliche, but I met
John Gray who has this whole theory about how men have a
cave where, it's a metaphorical cave, but men have to
retreat so they can sort of recharge their batteries. They
need that space to get away to realize how great intimacy is
once they're ready for it again. And often times women don't
let you retreat, they think that you're pulling away from
them, they take it personally and they wonder what they did
wrong that's making the guy retreat. And really what this
does is prevent the guy from taking the much needed time to
himself and then it ends up making things worse than if she
were to just leave the guy alone to begin with."
... on RELATIONSHIPS
On marriage: "Marriage is optional ... It's just a
social institution. Doesn't really hold any meaning outside
of what we ascribe to it. That said, I will stay with the
same person for as long as we make each other happy! And
having children, I'm open to it. I probably would love to
have kids but it's hard for me to say because I haven't
really met somebody that I could envision myself having kids
with."
Is a relationship important: "There's nothing better
than a solid connection with someone who I trust and am fiercely attracted
to. I love it. I would love to find somebody to date
consistently, oh my god, that'd me great.
You don't like being single: "It sort of goes in waves.
There was a time after a relationship ended that I really
loved being the single guy in town. You get a beating when
you're going through a breakup so what you need is an ego
recharge to know that you're still desired and to know that
you can still charm a girl. You need it. And that provides a
service to your sense of self and your sense of worth. But
that sort of gratification doesn't really last very long
because a) the sex is never good, and b) you don't allow
yourself to care too much about those girls, because
emotionally you're still wounded but at least physically you
can compensate and find some comfort right away. But
emotionally and sexually, you're left pretty lacking. As
soon you realize, well that kind of sucks, emotionally I'm
ready again to go and connect with somebody. That's when you
sort of don't like being the single guy and you would rather
have a girlfriend and right now, I feel like I'm ready
emotionally. I've closed that chapter and I'm ready to begin
a new one."
Why do you say the sex is never good: "Coming out of a
relationship with a girl that you dated for two years that
is pretty much like the best sex you'll have and trying to
recapture that with a one night stand, is like
impossible."
What I love most about being in a relationship:
"Comfort, security, friendship and the experience of
getting to know the many layers of a person that comes only
with time."
Top relationship keys: "Attraction, listening,
compromise and time. Trust, for sure. That's paramount.
Trust and being honest with yourself I think is also majorly
important. You can't make yourself like a girl who smokes if
you know that deep down you hate cigarettes. You just can't
do it."
A woman in a relationship with me can expect: "I'm
super affectionate. I love great food so she can expect
really good restaurants. That's not to say the most
expensive or the fanciest or the most romantic restaurants.
But I'm a foodie so I love amazing delicious food. All the
restaurants that I go to in LA are addiction forming. I love
a great environment, so aesthetics means a lot to me whether
it's my room or going out to different places, vacations.
All that sort of stuff matters. I always take that in
account. I'm very open and I'm a good listener. I'm very
attentive. I think I'm, in terms of competence in bed, I
think I'm above average. I'm super loyal, I've never ever
cheated on anybody."
What I expect: "Truth, transparency, stability,
communication and a willingness to try new things :)"
When I'm in love, I ... "really, really, really
love. I take a lot of pictures."
What makes me feel close to a woman: "I feel close
and comfortable with somebody when I can appreciate silence
with that other person. Like nice quietude. Nice spooning,
watching a movie. In terms of conversation, it doesn't need
to be wall-to-wall carpeting. I value comfortable silence
with somebody that I care about."
Greatest relationship lesson: "Set aside more alone
time for just her. Spending time with me and my friends will
never substitute for time spent with just me."
What makes a woman marriage material: "Stability,
positive attitude towards health and wellness, strong
attraction, good taste in music. Pretty much the same as my
`Ideal woman' question."
... on SEX
What makes sex good: "Being comfortable in your own
skin."
I feel my sexiest when ... "after a really good
workout and a shower. When I feel healthy and toned. I feel
pretty sexy, oddly enough, like on Saturday and Sunday
afternoons. That's a pretty good time to feel sexy. When
there's no distractions and you're just locked up in the
bedroom."
Most sensual part of a woman's body: "Her lips. Her
skin. Her hair."
Sexiest thing a woman can wear in private: "One of my
T-shirts and nothing else. :)"
Surefire way for a woman to seduce me: "Oh, it's not
that difficult. :) I still have to find the girl attractive
but I don't think it's that difficult. I'm very receptive.
I'm a good communicator so if she wants to seduce me, she
can totally seduce me. It's body language, if she shows me
without speaking that she's physically into me."
... on LIFE
Making my mark: "With dedication, passion, intellect
and good friends."
Do you feel like you're making your mark right now:
"Yeah, very much so. I love my job. I have good
friends. With my job, we definitely feel like we're making a
dent and music to me is just something that ... if you would
have told me a year ago that I'd be performing my own
original songs for audiences in and around LA, I'd laugh. I
mean my job really feels like a dream come true and the fact
that I'm dong music also feels like a dream come true. So in
many ways, I feel very creatively expressed, and it's
great."
Responsibility to society: "My career lies at the
meeting place between new media and the socially conscious and
progressive ... I love what I do!"
Valuable life lesson: "Never underestimate a persons
ability to hurt you, but also that same persons ability to
redeem themselves."
I must ... "publish an album of all original stuff,
travel the world, create a feature length film."
Best advice received: "That you can do anything in life
that you want. All you have to do is ... do it."
Best advice I've given a woman: "Come home with me.
Just kidding."
... on HIS FAVORITE THINGS
Movie: "American Beauty."
TV Show: "Six Feet Under."
Book: "Freedom From The Known by J. Krishnamurti."
Music: "Any singer/songwriter with a reason to
sing."
Food: "Healthy food ... Brown rice, whole wheat, lean
protein, you get the idea."
... final THOUGHTS
Pets: "I had a cat that I named Harlem that I rescued
who recently passed away. One of the saddest days of my life
... She was like my daughter."
Always in my refrigerator: "Ketchup. We eat out all the
time. We're foodies. We eat out and we eat healthy. We eat
at places that we know really well and we know what to
expect. No surprises. We're really good at finding really
good restaurants that are also a value. There's a place
called Bosanova. We're creatures of routine.
Hottest possession: "My black Takamine guitar..."
I'd change places for 24 hours with ... "Bono because I
think that he's just such an amazing philanthropist and he's
also a freakin' enormous rock star. He's written some very
important albums to me. And he's got a lot of great friends,
he's got an amazing entourage of celebrities, political
do-gooders, I think he's great".
I'd most like to hang out with ... Bono or Obama. Obama is a
rock star too. Obama, to me, is like such a freaking amazing
guy. What he's accomplished in his young life so far, making
history. I think he's one of the most charismatic people
I've ever seen speak. I love the way he speaks. He's super
intelligent and well read and articulate and eloquent and
charming. He loves his family, you can see it, the way he
carries himself. He's just really impressive with me."
Celeb I'd love to take on a date: "Mila Kunis. She's
super hot. I find her really attractive. She seems like
she's got an adorable personality."
Why I'm a great catch: "I'm passionate, educated. I can
sing, play guitar and write songs. I love my job and I love
to be and eat healthy. Come on, am I missing anything?
:-)"
Me in a word: "Dynamic."
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