... the FACTS 

Born: Palos Verdes, CA

Resides: San Diego, CA

Birth date: 3-21-61 

Sign: Aries

Height: 5'9"

Hair: Brown

Eyes: Blue

Status: Divorced, no children

Want children: Yes

Nonsmoker

Education: Bachelor of Science in molecular biology at UCLA and an Masters Degree. 

Occupation: Board certified plastic and reconstructive surgeon. Certified in The American Board of Plastic Surgery. Specialty is revisionary breast surgery, rhinoplasty and facial rejuvenation (face lifts, brow lifts, eyes). "This is my 11th year of practice. I'm passionate about it."

... on HIMSELF

Strengths: "I'm a really good communicator. And  looking at the big picture instead of just being reactive. I'm definitely high energy. I like to put as much as I can into a day. I surf, golf, I recently started riding rode bicycles pretty seriously and I work out 4 days a week. I try to stay in shape. I would consider myself a very social guy."

Weakness: "I have a weakness for a great butt or a cute girl. My weakness is I'm into what I do. I guess I'm a bit of a workaholic. I probably could enjoy life a little more but I like it. Most of the girls I've gone out with really do understand it."

I've been known to ... "be very meticulous and a perfectionist. Personally, I think I'm a really caring, nice guy. I'm a really good friend to my friends."

Interests: "Movies, travel." 

Turn-ons: "Positive people. What I don't like is people who have an excuse for everything, don't complain about it, just do it. I like people who are positive, who has a positive attitude, easy to get along with, tries to always make the best out of something, their cup is half full. I just like people who are passionate about something, that's exciting, that's great."

Turn-offs: "The cup's half empty, complain and don't do anything about anything, laziness, those are things that really turn me off." 

Special Talents: "My profession is what my focus is."

Awards: "I won my golfing championship. I graduated Magna Cum Laude in medical school."

Charities: "I have been involved in a number of charities. One is called Interface. Four or five plastic surgeons will go down to Mexico and fix cleft lips and burn injuries and stuff like that."

15 minutes of fame: "I've been on Extra, Today show, Discovery Channel for my profession."

Travels: "I lived in Israel for 6 months. I've been to Italy, Cabo a lot, one of my favorite destinations. I go to Vegas a fair amount. I'd like to go to Europe a little bit more, or go to the Orient or do some real traveling like that."

Spirituality: "I'm Jewish but I'm not that religious."

Fashion sense: "I'm definitely in tune with fashion. Suits, jeans. When I'm at work, I wear a lot of suits or my scrubs when I go out I like to wear jeans."

Staying healthy: "I try to eat healthy but I'm not nuts about it."

What touches my soul: "A really nice gesture that no one asks for or a gift that is not conditional."

... on WOMEN 

I first notice ... "a great body. Thin, toned and muscular. I tend to like petite woman. I would say at this age I definitely have a type. I like kind of a petite Hispanic looking girl, very dark skin; I would say that would be what turns my head.

Attention-getters: "Some guys like natural, I don't. I like the type who wears high heels and dresses up and anything that's tight and shiny would definitely get my attention. If she wore leather, that would even be better. 

Ideal woman: "I want someone who has their own identity but they're not `I am woman, hear me roar.' I was married to that. My ex was a very strong lady, very independent and that's a pain the ass, I have to be honest. I'd like someone who has their own identity but knows how to treat a man. It's that old adage if you treat me like a king, I'll treat you like a queen. I like a girl who understands me, who likes to take care of their guy and in the same tone I'd like to appreciate a lady. Someone who is social, outgoing, treats me well and is active."

I can't resist a woman who ... "looks hot in tight leather pants."

Most important quality in a woman: "Attitude. Easy going, will try anything. Just real positive, and not negative on anything. A lot of women are negative and it's frustrating. I think there are women who just have a great attitude and that's awesome, there's some women who don't."

Ideal date: "My idea of a perfect date is to ride a motorcycle out to some area and have a great dinner and maybe even go to a nearby casino, gamble a little bit, have fun, have a few drinks and then come home."

What makes me call a woman back after a first date: "Chemistry. If we connected and had a great time, they're the kind of person I want to be with."

I would never date a woman who ... "is jealous, insecure or who would treat others poorly, who felt that they were more important than other people."

How I show I care: "I'm very romantic. I think that if a woman knows you're thinking about her and you do little things that make her think that you're thinking about them, either phone them, buy them little gifts, Little things that you go out of your way to do. If they come over, turn on music and set the mood, with candles and things like that. Those are little things that women appreciate." 

What makes a woman unforgettable: "A woman with great eyes making great eye contact. Eye contact is important because it lets you know they're interested."

I wish women understood ... "how to take care of a man. Some women never learn that. Men's needs and women needs are totally two different things. A woman needs to feel secure, fawned after, romantic, involved. In some different way, a guy needs to feel like he's a little bit in charge but she's going to be there for him and just like a girl wants to feel like a guy's thinking about her, a guy needs a woman doing the same. Some women take a lot of things for granted. They take it for granted that you're going to go out and buy them dinner, that you're going to open the door, that you're going to spoil them. They take all that stuff for granted but then they don't show that they're appreciative of all the efforts that you do. One is to communicate it, another is for them to go out of their way and do things. If a girl buys things for a guy, if they make dinner for you, those are big, if they give you a back rub and when you're with them, you feel like they're with you."

... on RELATIONSHIPS  

On marriage: "I'm a retired lady's man. After a divorce, you want to go out with everybody and you do. I'm a number of years out from my divorce and what I'm looking for right now is totally different from what I was looking for 3 1/2 years ago. Right now I'm looking for a partner. I'm looking for someone with the total package. Who I'm attracted to yet they have their own deal going, they have their own job, own social friends and I want somebody who enhances me as I enhance them. I'm looking for a partner. A relationship is important to me for a lot of reasons. One is I want to be able to focus my attention on one person and not be dating this person and dating that person, I've done that. And develop a relationship. When you feel really secure with one person, it's really neat. I want to be able to spoil that person and get spoiled in return and have a better relationship and maybe have kids and have that partnership."

Top relationship keys: "Communication and respect. If you communicate your feelings and you respect that person and respect that person's feelings, you're not going to deviate outside that relationship and if they communicate to you then you don't hold thing."

A woman in a relationship with me can expect ... "to be active, have a lot of fun, shopping, travel and shopping. Did I mention shopping? I love shopping. I'm a chick, there's no question. I'm as hetero as they get but I do like things like shopping and stuff like that. I love to take a woman shopping and help them pick out stuff. I'll buy them things."
  
What I expect: "Someone who understands me, respects what I do, and wants to make me as happy as I want to make them happy."

When I'm in love, I ..."think about that person constantly."

What makes me feel close to a woman: "Deep, meaningful communication. When a woman takes care of me and makes me feel like I'm number one, that makes me feel close to her."

Greatest relationship lesson: "Not being true to myself and settling. Next time, I will be courageous enough to say and do the things that make it real instead of just saying things to appease that person, just do the things that really are true. I think that with relationships, honesty really is truly the best policy, even if it hurts a little up front. If you're both honest, and that other person understands that being honest is really important, then you're ok."

What makes a woman marriage material: "I'm going to call it the ABCs. Attitude, brains and chemistry."

... on SEX  

What makes sex good: "Giving of yourself, when you can just be yourself in bed."

I feel my sexiest when ..."I'm with someone who appreciates me."

Most sensual part of a woman's body: "Her lips. I love kissing. I love full lips."

Sexiest thing a woman can wear in private: "Thigh high boots and nothing else. Black is always good."

Surefire way to seduce me: "Say hello. I have to be interested in them. In the first 5 seconds I know if I interested or not. It's just the way we all are."

... on LIFE

Making my mark: "I want to be the best I can be at what I do and teach others the lessons I've learned."

Responsibility to society: "I'd like to improve the lives of the people I touch by being talented at what I do. In personal relationships my responsibility is to treat people with respect."

Valuable life lesson: "Honesty really is the best policy."

I must ... "visit Africa, earn enough money so working is a choice, have some children (1-3)."

Best advice received: "Pick your battles."

Best advice I've given a woman: "Bigger is not always better with lips and the breasts. Don't go too big. You can only control your own behavior. Always split Aces and eights."

... on HIS FAVORITE THINGS

Movie: "Gladiator, Napoleon Dynamite, Old School."

TV Show: "Desperate Housewives, The Sopranos."

Book: "The DaVinci Code, The Kiterunner."

Food: "Sushi, Italian."

... final THOUGHTS

Wheels: "SL 55, Escalade, Harley, dirt bikes, bicycles, surfboards."

Pets: "A peekaboo named Sparky, very manly dog. He's 20 lbs. with an underbite. He's a wonderdog. He's been run over three times."

Always in my refrigerator: "Water, Coors Light beer and Botox." 

Hottest possession: "My True Religion jeans."

I would change places for 24 hours with ... "NBA star Tony Parker, so I can get in Eva Longoria's panties. be with Eva Longoria."

I would most like to hang out with ... "Vince Vaughn and Will Smith. They're fuckin fun, very fun guys."

Celeb I'd love to take on a date: "Eva Longoria. She's hot, she's my type. That's exactly my type. Small, petite, dark hair, dark skin look, She has a lot of sex appeal. She's very sexy."

Why I'm such a great catch: "I'm metrosexual, neat, very well manicured. I'm fun and easy to get along with and I love what I do. I'm passionate about what I do. And I treat women well."  

Me in a word: "Fun."