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... the FACTS
Born: Porto Alegre, Brazil. I'm a South African citizen.
I lived in Argentina and moved to South Africa when I was seven. I was brought up in South Africa, did all my schooling there except for college.
I went to England straight after high school for about a year and half.
Resides: Fort Lauderdale, Florida and travels to Atlanta, GA
every week.
Birth date: 5-12-81
Sign: Taurus
Height: 6'1"
Weight: 185 lbs
Hair: Dark Brown/Black
Eyes: Hazel
Family: Only child
Status: Never married, no children
Want children: Yes
Nonsmoker
Education: Bachelor's degree in mechanical engineering. I was a pre dental student at Georgia Tech.
Occupation: Account Executive for a bank / model.
... on HIMSELF
Strengths: "I'm friendly and lighthearted. I like to joke around
and be sarcastic. There's always a time to be serious but most of the time, that's just not me. I'm reliable."
Weakness: "When I don't succeed I find it hard to forgive myself. I don't set unrealistic goals but it really hits me if I don't perform. I guess it's a little bit of my professional streak in me."
Others may not see: "My sensitivity. There are certain things that can really hit me. But there are other things on the other hand where I'm pretty hard, I really couldn't care. On the outside I can come across who is unaffected emotionally but it's really not the case."
I've been known to ... "be secretive and be outrageously spontaneous. I'm just random, completely random. There's a certain space in my personal life that nobody really knows about, I just believe that everybody has a part of themselves that nobody has access to. I'm very territorial.
There are certain things that I just keep to myself. I've done some pretty crazy stuff. I'm known more than anything for working hard and playing harder."
Interests: "Sports (rugby, soccer, tennis and American football, of course), astrology, psychology, flight. When I was littler, I always wanted to be a pilot. I was really obsessed with flying objects. I love planes, I still do. I just kind of grew out of it.
But I still love flight. I love to watch any movie or documentary with planes in it. I did want to pursue it. As a matter of face, when I first came to Georgia tech, I was in aerospace engineering."
Turn ons: "I'm a sucker for an older girl. I've dated several girls in their thirties. An independent career girl who knows what she wants and has a sense of direction is a major turn on. A girl, who can make me laugh and is a killer partner in crime, is irresistible. Older girls have a good head on their shoulders and they're just more exciting and more interesting than younger girls."
Turn offs: "Drugs, infidelity, and drama queens. No time of day for that."
Special Talents: "Languages, mathematics, sarcasm, spontaneity and playing pranks. I speak Portuguese, Spanish and English and a little bit of Afrikaans. I don't want to say that I'm entirely fluent in Afrikaans but I can speak it."
15 minutes of fame: "Jumping out of a plane on national television wearing nothing but a white pair of CK's and army boots in Bravo's Manhunt. I heard it's on VH1's
Most Ridiculous TV moments."
Travels: "Lived in: Brazil, Argentina, Swaziland, South Africa, Mozambique, England, and USA."
Spirituality: "Christian. I go to church once a week"
Fashion sense: "I'm more on the dressy side. Conservative with an edge. I don't follow any designers. If it looks good, I'll throw it on."
Staying healthy: "I run in the morning before breakfast, weights in the evening after work."
What touches my soul: "Animals. It's their innocence. It just amazes me how much a dog can love and if it's a cat, it's a mystery really, they almost like you and don't want to be around you at the same time. It's interesting."
... on WOMEN
I first notice ... "her body language and the way she's dressed. There's just something about the way certain women holds themselves, their body language, just makes you curious. The way she's holding herself is just attractive. I really can't describe it."
Attention-getters: "How well she can dance. I can't take me eyes off a girl who has rhythm."
Ideal woman: "Loyal, nurturing and fun. I'll change fun to a partner in crime. You got to be a partner in a crime. What makes it really fun is when you have your own little world. Like when you're out with a whole bunch of friends, but there's little jokes that only you and her share. You party together; she's your partner in crime.
A sense of humor if she wants, that'd be nice."
I can't resist a woman who ... "makes me laugh, is independent, and has no idea of her beauty."
Most important quality in a woman: "Fidelity. It's just part of who I am. But yeah, I have been cheated on. Maybe that has something to do with it. But it think just generally I m somebody who just expects that. And I'll give it in return. It's mandatory for a relationship to survive. Blame it on the Taurus, if you like. I'm not jealous or possessive but I'll stand my ground. Cross the line, you'll get your hand slapped."
Ideal date: "I do very little planning actually. The best times
that I've had I've come up with ideas at the top of my head. I really don't have a favorite date; it's different every single time so I really can't say."
What makes me call a woman back after a first date: "Whether or not she'll be a good partner in crime."
I would never date a woman who ... "is a drama queen."
How I show I care: "Give her what I don't have a lot of - time. Ok and a little something extra. perhaps ;)"
What makes a woman unforgettable: "Her scent, the way she moves, and the way she makes me laugh."
I wish women understood ... "that questions such as "Are you mad at me?" "What are you thinking?" and "Do I look fat?" are questions you should ask if you are deliberately trying to make us associate you with a headache."
One thing a woman has never done: "Pick me up on her Harley Davidson!"
... on RELATIONSHIPS
On relationships: "Avoid monotony. Any relationship where you keep it fun, keep it
changing. If you do fall into a routine, someone's going to get bored and leave."
Top relationship keys: "High energy, high tension, space and trust. I always like to play around with the girls I'm dating. I give them a lot "shit" I tease them a lot, they tease me back. That keeps the tension up, it's fun."
A woman in a relationship with me can expect ... "honesty, trust and to have a BLAST!!!"
What I expect: "I just want a relationship to be easy and fun. I expect the same in return really. I can't ask for more."
What makes me feel close to a woman: "That little common place that nobody else has.
When you have your own little world, your own little conspiracy which nobody else has access to, it makes the interaction that much more special. It makes me feel closer to
her."
Greatest relationship lesson: "Don't try to change people. That's a general rule for anybody, you try to play therapist in a relationship, and you're going to destroy it. People like that don't need a boyfriend; they just need a friend really."
What makes a woman marriage material: "Her maternal instincts and the type of family she comes from. I want children. Honesty, trust."
... on SEX
What makes sex good: "It should never be the same. Spontaneity is key."
Most sensual part of a woman's body: "Her curvature. The way she's shaped. If I got to choose a body part, I would choose, oh, I love the neck and the back."
Sexiest thing a woman can wear in private: "Ha! Less is more! Got to go with the birthday suit."
Surefire way to seduce me: "The assertiveness in her choice of words combined with her touch. You got to choose your words if you want to seduce someone but also if she knows what she wants, if she moves on strong, then it's just kind of a turn on. You combine touch with it,
it's kind of hard to resist."
... on HIS FAVORITE THINGS
Movie: "The Shawshank Redemption."
TV Show: "College football."
Music: "R&B, House, Trance."
Food: "Long live Krispy Kreme. I haven't eaten them in a while though. Protein. Chicken."
... on LIFE
Responsibility to society: "Give. I've gained a lot, I've been a lucky person with my education and all that and I want to
give back what I've taken."
Valuable life lesson: "Life is governed by a cycle of ups and downs and give/take relationships. Yet the direct relation that always holds true is that the more you put in, the more you'll get out."
I must ... "have a son, give back more than I have taken, and learn to hang-glide."
Best advice received: "Dig your roots somewhere and never pull them out."
Best advice I've given a woman: "Move on. There's too many fish in the ocean."
... final THOUGHTS
Pets: "Two cocker spaniels, Lucas and Patches."
Always in my refrigerator: "PROTEIN. Chicken, skim milk, bread, water. I'm sure all the prospective girls will be so interested in this."
Hottest possession: "The watch that my dad and gave me. I feel like that's something that I'm going to have for many years to come. Once my parents are gone, I'll always look back on it."
I would change places for 24 hours with ... "somebody who needs to eat."
I'd most like to hang out with ... "my parents. I don't get to see them that often. They live in Cape Town, South Africa. I visit once or twice a year."
Celeb I'd love to take on a date: "Celebs don't impress me."
Why I'm such a great catch: "Oh hell, you tell me. She's going to have fun, that's all that counts. I'm fun and I'll make her laugh, without fail, always.
There's a zero shit policy. I don't take their shit. Definitely not.
I give them shit, it's fun if they give it back on the same communication level, the same playful level. I'm very playful with them, that's how I treat a woman, very playful."
Me in a word: "Deep."
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