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PHILIP
"The ideal relationship would dictate that the woman is an enhancement to my life, as I would be to hers," says 6' Philip. "If we don't make each others lives better by being together then it's not a partnership that would work." Residing in Staten Island, NY, this
32-year-old former Detective for the NYPD, who now works in Manhattan's lower east side, describes himself as loyal, compassionate and trustworthy. What would make this brown-eyed Libra call after a first date? "If I picked her up at 8 pm and it's 2 am," says Philip, "and I never looked at my watch once."
... the FACTS
Born: Bronx, New York
Resides: Staten Island, NY
Birthdate: 9-27-72
Sign: Libra
Height: 6'
Hair: Brown
Eyes: Brown
Status: Divorced, no children
Non Smoker
Occupation: Firefighter
On being a firefighter: "Each and every time you're called upon, it's to help people out. The challenges of firefighting and the brotherhood of the fire service are powerful factors that contribute to my love of this job."
... on HIMSELF
Philip is a man who ... "when he finally makes up his mind to do something ... very little will deter him."
Strengths: "Loyalty, compassion, trustworthy."
I've been known to ... "take late night runs to Atlantic City."
Interests: "Professional sports, fitness, politics, trivia.
Salsa dancing, I've always loved the music, but just started
the lessons and I must say I'm loving it. Potential dance partners ...watch your feet
...HA!!!!"
Turn Ons: "Physically fit women with a good sense of humor and who can carry on a meaningful conversation."
Turn Offs: "Smokers."
And the winner is: "Football GTE Academic All-American, Former NYPD Detective."
Charities: "Regular contributor to the North Shore Animal League (NO Kill Shelters)."
15 Minutes of Fame: "Mr. January" 2004 NYC Firefighters Calendar of Heroes. Featured on front page of the Daily News.
Featured in the March 04 issue of Exercise for Men Only magazine. My fitness routine - and my life - how I went from 275 lbs to 205 lbs - the importance of fitness in my job. I was 19 at my heaviest - and it took me about 11 yrs. Featured story and photos in upcoming issue of
Men's Exercise Magazine."
Travels: "I'm a Las Vegas regular, Miami, cruises to the Caribbean, California. I try to go to warm climates."
Fashion Sense: "Kenneth Cole, Express, Banana Republic."
Staying Healthy: "Lifting weights and running on the treadmill a minimum of three times a week ... I watch what I eat all the time. Except in the Firehouse ... those are my cheat days."
What touches my soul: "Seeing close-knit families ... people who really love their pets."
... on WOMEN
I first notice ... "her eyes."
A woman can get my attention ... "with a nice smile and lots of eye contact."
Ideal Woman: "I seem to be attracted to strength. I like independent and bold women. A woman who knows what she wants and goes after it."
I can't resist a woman who ... "looks just as good in jeans as she does in heels and a skirt."
I show a woman I care about her ... "with affection ... lots of affection."
One thing a woman has done for me that has made me melt: "I was surprised with a limo ride to a Broadway show, dinner and drinks for my birthday. I'm easily impressed."
Most important quality in a woman: "Intelligence."
Ideal Date: "Since I live in NYC, I love taking advantage of the greatest restaurants in the world. I guess I usually start with food then figure out the rest as I go along."
I would call a woman back after a first date ... "if I picked her up at 8 PM and it's 2 am and I never looked at my watch once."
I would never date a woman who ... "smokes."
What makes a woman unforgettable: "An unforgettable woman is one who is always on my mind when we're not together."
I wish women understood ... "the importance of men keeping their `male bonding,' `guy's night out' even if they're involved in a relationship."
... on RELATIONSHIPS
On marriage: "Never settle. Though I'm not opposed to being married, I'd much rather strive for a healthy relationship. I prefer to consider a relationship a partnership. The ideal relationship or marriage for that matter would dictate that the woman is an enhancement to my life, as I would be to hers. If she or I don't make each others lives better by being together then it's obviously not a partnership that would work."
Top relationship keys: "To consider the person you're involved with as one of your best friends ... and continuous mutual sexual attraction."
My last relationship ... what went wrong: "I didn't fall in love."
A woman who is in a relationship with me can expect ... "tons of affection and a lot of effort put into making it work."
What I Expect: "My affection returned."
When I'm in love, I ... "will do just about anything to make my woman smile."
I feel close to a woman ... "when she opens up and confides in me."
Greatest Relationship Lesson: "Find a mate who is capable and is willing to be your equal in the relationship ... nobody likes a doormat."
... on SEX
On sex in a relationship: "A healthy sex life spills over into a healthy everyday relationship. Though it is not the only thing that makes a relationship work, a bad sex life will certainly affect the rest of your interactions with your
mate."
What puts me in the mood: "Watching a woman get dressed ... There is a photo by Pamela Hansen that sums up how it makes me feel."
I feel my sexiest when ... "a woman can't seem to keep her hands off my body."
Sexiest thing a woman can wear in private is ... "thigh high fishnets and heels."
... on HIS FAVORITE THINGS
Movie: "Forrest Gump."
TV Show: "Seinfeld."
Book: "Brotherhood of the Rose."
Food: "Pizza."
... on LIFE
Making My Mark: "The only way to know is if you provided enough fond memories to enough people after you have passed."
Responsibility to Society: "As a firefighter and a detective before that, I think the professions I've chosen require me to be responsible to society."
Valuable life lesson: "Things could always be worse."
Best Advice Received: "Think before you act."
Best Advice I've Given a Woman: "If you want to get to know him ... you better let him know before someone else beats you to it."
... final THOUGHTS
Pets: "Dog (Ginger). She was saved from a shelter. I recommend anyone looking for a pet to check your local shelters first. Save a life."
Tattoos: "Tribal tattoo on my left arm."
Always in my Refrigerator: "Turkey breast and peanut butter."
Secret Fantasy: "To have sex on the Brooklyn Bridge."
Why I'm such a great catch: "I'm not sure. Maybe someone will be able to tell me soon."
Me in a word: "Eclectic."
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