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Ryan
... the FACTS
Born: Watertown, WI
Resides: Long Beach, CA
Birth date: 2-23-80
Sign: Pisces
Height: 6'2"
Hair: Brown
Eyes: Green
Family: Mother, Father, one older brother, one older deceased brother (December 19, 1992), one
older foster sister - yes, I am the baby.
Status: Never married, no children
Education: Bachelor of Business Administration with a Degree in Finance and a specialization of
economics.
Occupation: Writer
... on HIMSELF
Strengths: "Perceptive, strong willed, ambitious, intelligent, sense of humor. I step up when the situation calls for it (especially when it isn't necessarily easy), extreme adaptability, realistic-but I choose to look at the bright side of things "
Weaknesses: "Repetitiveness, too much doubt sometimes, serious trust issues, sometimes overly sensitive (take things personal when I shouldn't)."
Others may not see: "Pure honesty - I'm honest towards myself and others, which is extremely rare in this world. As a result it isn't picked up on by most people. When I'm talking to someone and telling the absolute truth, they think I scheming, or just full of shit. But really, I'm just being me."
I've Been Known To ... "make people laugh, make odd situations work out."
Interests: "Writing, acting, real estate, being an entrepreneur, basketball, weight training, running."
Turn Ons: "Natural beauty, nice legs, cute mid-drift, humor."
Turn Offs: "Lack of intelligence, exposure of blatant fat."
Special Talents: "Making a bad situation good."
Titles: "Graduated College Magna Cum Laude."
Charities: "Random donations through work."
15 Minutes of Fame: "Still counting."
Spirituality: "There is a greater power. I give thanks to it and love the loving, respect the respectful. We're all part of a huge mass of energy built out of positive, negative, and neutral flows. If you're positive, you help the overall average. If you're personally feeling negative, then you must work towards expanding at least a neutral flow, as to not lower the average. There have been great souls on this earth before. Some of them are named, remembered and made into religions. The bodies that carried these souls are people who can rightfully so be worshiped. They carried the power of the maker (The greater power, which is 100% unexplainable - that's our place as humans), but that doesn't make me pick one religion or another. I take a broadened approach and live with love in my heart, while giving thanks to all as best I can."
Fashion Sense: "If it fits right and I'm feelin' it, then I'll wear. I don't care so much about what the magazines are showing that season."
Staying Healthy: "Weight training, running, basketball, eat right."
What touches my soul: "A mother (any species) and her young children. It's just unreal to me."
... on WOMEN
I first notice ... "her overall feel. It sucks you in or pushes you out."
Attention Getters: "Make me laugh with an original and extremely witty joke (I love a good sense of humor)."
Ideal woman: "1) Humorous - she doesn't even have to be this funny riot of a person, she just has to have a great sense of humor, or else she'll think I'm an idiot. I speak in jokes about 50% of the time. I need a female who allows me to be zany, even if she isn't. 2) Likable - she has to have a genuine personality. 3) An intellect - she has to be able to share ideas with me. If she can't hear me out or talk to me about what she thinks, then it's a short matter of time before I'm uninterested. 4) Realistic - she has to have a well-rounded idea of who she is, what she can do, what she wants to do, and at least an idea of how she wants to get there. I don't necessarily need someone who is goal-oriented, but she has to have an idea of what's really going on around her. I'm not a fan of the naive. Whether the naivete is a game or for real - I'm not a fan of the naive.
I can't resist a woman who ... "is absolutely gorgeous and yet puts it out of her mind."
I show I care ... "with poetry."
A woman made me melt ... "by putting two hands on my face and felt my eyes while I was dazed by hers."
Most important quality in a woman: "Attractive - I'm sorry if this offends anybody, but for me to really become interested in a girl on a dating level, I have to be attracted to a her. (I need to be physically pulled to a woman. However, I don't have specific physical traits that I'm only attracted to. She just has to be very attractive to me.) This attribute diminishes the fastest if there isn't anything else to her, but for me to get going, she must first be attractive."
Ideal Date: "Find a feeling of ease. I know this sounds cheesy, but it doesn't matter what we do as long as we have a fun time where we can both be ourselves … comfortably. But an outdoor wining experience is always great. I can entertain a lady anywhere, but I'd like to see them in different lights in the same day and night if possible."
What makes me call a woman back after a first date: "Just trusting the feeling that lets you know you should. Even if it's scary. If you feel like you should, then trust it. It doesn't even necessarily matter how that first date went. Just trust the feeling you have after the fact."
I'd never date a woman ... "whose second question was what type of car I drive."
Anything women should understood about men: "Nope, I love the mystery. I love hearing people complain about it. It's one of those necessary things I feel is needed to keep men and women so irritatingly, yet constantly, attracted to each other. What's the fun with knowing all the answers?"
... on RELATIONSHIPS
On relationships: "Whether a person is dependent or 100% independent, at some point in time they need a companion in their lives. You just have to be honest about yourself and the people who you go out with. Eventually, someone will make a great mate for you."
Top Relationship Keys: "Patience, understanding, being honest to one another, and feeling out if the relationship really is good for the both of you."
My last relationship ... what went wrong: "We just weren't meant to be. That and alcohol."
A woman in a relationship with me can expect ... "ease. Do what you do and I'll do the same. We'll feel out how real it can become in a fast or slow way, but always fun. Never a dull moment unless it's just relaxation."
What I Expect: "Actual loyalty when I'm not there."
When I'm in love, I ... "change my behavior toward 'other women' when I go out and become inspired towards life and love."
Greatest Relationship Lesson: "Tell the truth to one another and be honest, even when it isn't easy."
... on SEX
How important is sex in a relationship: "Depends on the relationship, but overall I'd say huge. If it is a relationship where two parties are comfortable with making love to each other, then that good lovin' can fully express the amount of care you have for that person."
I feel my sexiest when ... "I'm feeling good walking into a bar, or when I'm out for a run with my shirt off."
Most sensual part of a woman's body: "The back of her neck and well …"
Sexiest thing a woman can wear in private: "A black bra with matching French-cut panties."
Surefire way to seduce me: "Rub her hands through the back of my hair."
... on HIS FAVORITE THINGS
Movie: "Goodfellas."
TV Show: "Simpsons."
Book: "Robinson Caruso."
Music: "Variety - I really enjoy all types of quality music."
Food: "Mexican."
... on LIFE
Making My Mark: "Speaking my mind through literary works."
Responsibility to Society: "Be good."
Valuable Life Lesson: "Be honest to yourself and then you can be honest towards others."
I must ... "write three novels, travel the world, have a beautiful family."
Best Advice I've Received: "Chill out, kid."
Best Advice I've Given a Woman: "Chill out, girl."
... final THOUGHTS
Tattoos/piercings: "Tattoo on my right arm."
Always in my Refrigerator: "Milk, juice, lunch meat, bread, fruit, vegetables, condiments and beer."
Hottest Possession: "My body."
Secret Fantasy: "Making love on a roof top."
I'd like to change places for 24 hours with ... "Halle Barry's husband."
I'd most like to hang out with ... "Brad Pitt."
Why I'm a great catch: "I'm nice and I'm honest."
Me in a word: "Efficient."
Last Words: "In the end, the only thing you're left with is how you feel when you look back at the things you've done, times you've had and relationships you've made. What you do now is what you have to look back on. The only time you have is from now on. Make your moments or just let them happen, but know that soon enough that's all you're going to have. Right now is your only major means of control in regard to how your honest memories develop. How do you want to feel in the end? Let that thought help guide what you do today. But, as a rule, never ever put pressure on it. With that in mind, Have a Great Day."
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