"If
someone is trying to get my attention, all they have to do
is talk to me, I'm definitely approachable."
Millions
tune in each week and watch Shawn Pyfrom in the role of
Andrew Van de Kamp on ABC’s mega-hit Desperate
Housewives. The show's all-star ensemble cast has earned
him two Screen Actors Guild Award nominations and a Prism
Award nomination. Shawn, who’s been acting since he was
four, was also nominated for the Hollywood Reporter's
“Young Star Award” for Best Actor for his convincing
turn as the young Bonaduce in ABC’s movie-of-the-week
about the Partridge Family, and is appearing in the upcoming
film, Tanner Hall.
... the FACTS
Born: Tampa, Florida
Resides:
Los Angeles, CA
Birth date: 8-16-86
Sign: Leo
Height: 5'9"
Hair: Light Brown
Eyes: Hazel
Family: I have an older brother, younger sister. My brother
is a music and chorus teacher in Louisiana, my sister is a
college student.
Ethnicity: "I'm a mutt, I'm Italian, French, Hungarian,
Welsh."
Status: Never married, no children
Nonsmoker
Occupation: Actor
Did you know that Desperate Housewives was going to be this
big: "No, not at all. I wanted to be a part of this
just to find out what was going to happen next before
everyone else. When I read the script, that was my only
inclination for wanting to be a part of this. I had no idea
that it was gong to be as big as it was."
How does it feel: "It's kind of iconic which is really,
really interesting. It's something that I have in the past
given some thought to and maybe occasionally think about
here and there but I never really spend much time thinking
about it. It's cool, it's something I never expected to be a
part of, it's not that I never thought that I would be, I
just never ever thought about it."
As an actor, do you love having parts that are so opposite
than who you are: "I love it. One of the reasons why I
act is I like being able to do something different,
something that's not me. I like being able to take on a
character that's completely different from who and what I am
and make it my own and get in that character's head. It's
fun to figure that person out. I've been doing this for five
seasons now and I'm still creating this character. I want to
be in movies, I like being able to play different characters
but there's also something really great about being able to
play the same character for such a long time to a point
where you're comfortable with that character and you can
explore within that character and bring up new things."
First big break: "I did this MOV for ABC about the
Partridge Family. I played Danny Bonaduce. It was the first
time I really got to act and play something completely
different from what I was."
... on HIMSELF
Strengths: "That's a hard question to answer
without sounding egocentric. I am outgoing. I guess I could
say that I'm creative. I love expressing myself through
other mediums. I love cooking and painting and music and
things like that and writing. I do a lot of abstract
artwork."
Are you a good cook: "I'd like to think so. I love food
and wine, gourmet, contemporary like french food. That's
sort of the genre of food that I like to make. I grew up
with my father cooking so I would sit in the kitchen with
him and watch him cook. And I don't know if I actually
learned any recipes or even techniques from him necessarily.
I think what I learned from him was just to love cooking
because cooking with him was always fun. It was like a
father/son bonding time and my brother and sister weren't
really big into it, so it was just always my dad and me.
Cooking for me has never been a chore. It's cleaning that
sucks."
What's your favorite dish to make: "It really depends
on what I'm hungry for. I'm trying to think of something
that will wow you. Like I said, I like to do some of the
contemnor kind of stuff, so I do a lot of reductions and
purees and things like that . For Thanksgiving, I'm doing
a brushetto wrapped date stuffed with nitela and strawberry
with a hazel nut and port puree and a strawberry jam."
You more than impressed me, wow.
My friends would probably say that I'm a bit neurotic. I'm
kind of a neat freak. I don't like things just sitting
around. No, they'd probably say that I'm loyal because I am.
I would do just about anything for someone who needs
me."
Weakness: "I have a weakness for good food, french
fries. I have a hard time staying away from french fries.
It's kind of boring but it's true."
Others may not see: "For anyone it's easy to just
assume by the fact that I act, I mean I'm not out there like
Zak Efron. When I am seen, let's just say, to just assume
that maybe I'm arrogant or full of myself. And it's possible
that something that I have said in an interview has been
misconstrued, chopped up and put on page or aired out of
context ... Some people are misperceived by the public or
the media because they were caught in a human moment. Who
knows what caused a person to say a certain thing, a rude
thing, an arrogant thing. They could have just received bad
news before they said what they said or did what they did.
This is me giving my opinion again as opposed to answering
the question. Here's a moral lesson from Shawn. I urge
anyone to just consider that before making a judgement about
that person's character. And I say that is something that
has unfortunately happened to me and I'm sure many, many
other actors and people as well. I'm not saying I'm any
different than them. I'm just a young man who has an
interest in wanting to express himself artistically. And
that's my only motivation of doing what I do. In any given
situation, its just what someone may do and they're just
caught off guard doing something that everyone else does but
because they who they are, they do what they do, they're
held more accountable than other people. Honestly, I think
I'm possibly too trusting of other people. But at the same
time, I don't want to be cynical so I am trusting. I trust
that everyone is approaching me with their purest intentions
so sometimes that comes to my determent but I say in most
cases it doesn't. And so I don't think that I'm cautious and
I don't think that anyone would perceive me as bring
cautious. I'm kind to anyone who comes up to me. But if I'm
not, then it's for good reason. Maybe because I'm just not
in a god mood, or I just received bad news. I can't always
be on cue for everyone. I can't always be out there for
everyone. I sometimes got to be out there for me."
I've been known to ... "give advice when it's not asked
for. Sometimes I forget to ask if people even want my
advice. Not like I'm complaining or don't like that people
do this, but a lot of my friends vent to me, and I most of
the time will ask are you telling me all this right now
because you just want to vent, you want someone to listen to
you or do you want me to give you my opinion and try to help
you. But occasionally I will just forget to ask and I will
just give my opinion and sometimes I get my head bit off
because they just want to vent."
Interests: "Cooking, writing, painting, For awhile
there I was playing a lot of soccer which I've kind of
stopped doing so that's not much of a hobby anymore for me.
I love movies. I'm very creative. I like to create things
and express myself in whatever way I can. But I think that
also comes from things that surround me. I'm inspired by
things that surround me so I'm constantly searching for
things that inspire me, either it be music or film or books
or whatever. I just started to teach myself the piano., I
haven't taken lessons yet, I'm going to. But I bought myself
a keyboard and I've been teaching myself how to play. I have
very short fingers, I tried my hand at the guitar. I'm sure
it's possible for me to be able to play the guitar but my
thick short fingers just did not work for me. So I gave up
on the guitar. And then one day, because I've always loved
music, and as I've gotten older I've grown to love music
even more. So I was like I love music so much, I want to
learn how to play it. And so I think the piano is one of the
few instruments that you can just sit down and play and sing
along to without any other instrument needed. And I also
enjoy piano music. I like all sorts of music I like jazz and
classical music. You can do all of those on the piano. Since
I've been little, I was always in chorus and things like
that. I've just grown up singing and I enjoy singing. I
don't sing professionally but maybe hopefully one day, if I
feel like I'm good enough, I will dabble in music. But I
think at this point, it's just for me."
Turn-ons: "Music, I love music. I just got a dog."
Turn-offs: "People who just create unnecessary drama. I
have an understanding for people who do that, I personally
do not do it. I know that some people just do it because
they thrive on that kind of attention, that gossipy
attention that they receive from people. So I get it but it
still annoys me. People who don't have manners, not that it
upsets me necessarily, it just embarrasses me for them. Like
when I'm out somewhere like a restaurant or something like
that and someone leaves a really poor tip or speaks down to
a waiter or just anybody. I guess that is also sort of tied
in with just a lack of respect for people. I just have a big
problem with that and it just makes me feel weird, it makes
me feel just embarrassed for them and embarrassed that I'm
with them. If I'm at a restaurant and someone speaks to a
waiter rudely I will usually try to make up for it by
thanking them profusely for bringing the salt or something
to show that I'm not rude. I appreciate what they're doing.
I call just about anybody sir and ma'am whether they be old
or young, just out of respect for what they're doing. If
someone's doing something for me, I give them the respect of
calling them sir or ma'am. If I'm with someone that I don't
know well and they react rude toward someone, then I
probably won't say anything to them unless it's something
just really, really rude. If it's a good friend of mine,
I'll definitely call them out on it."
Special Talents: "I write songs and screenplays. In
high school, I went all the way through Spanish 4 but I
probably only know about four words. My plan was if I wasn't
doing anything big by the time I got out of high school, I
was just going into college and quit acting and I got the
show right before I graduated. My plan was to go to Cal
State Nothridge for business. But I put that off."
Awards: "Hollywood
Reporter's “Young Star Award” for Best Actor.
2000
nominated with the ensemble cast SAG award. Prism
award was abc awards show honoring television and movies
that acknowledged drug and alcohol related issues."
Charities: "I help out where I can.(more info) I'm
passionate about helping people. I definitely think that if
you're in a position to do something for someone who didn't
receive as great a hand that you did in life. If you have
the time and you're able to, why not go out and help."
Travels: "I went out of the country for the first time
this last summer. I went to Bora Bora, Tahiti, Tiki and then
Italy and Spain."
Spirituality: "I'm not religious. I am a spiritual
being."
Fashion sense: "Well, I have recently been told, up
until recently, I have been dressing kind of like a slob.
And I guess I was. I was just sort of wearing what I was
comfortable in. Until recently my fashion style has just
sort of been to dress up in a dress shirt with slacks or
jeans. Still with my own personal touch. But typically if I
don't have to impress anybody, then I just wear what makes
me feel comfortable."
Staying healthy: "I work out when I can, run. I watch
what I eat sometimes, I'm not crazy about it. I will go
weeks eating not so healthy, going to in and out or getting
pizza, and then I'll see that I'm getting a little out of
hand or it's been going on for a little too long and I'll
pull back and I'll just eat healthy for a little while, just
kind of go back and forth. For me, I love food and because I
cook, I love to eat. While I still have this young
metabolism, I'm going to take advantage."
What touches my soul: "A lot of things, again depending
on the moment, touch me. I don't know if there's one
particular button that stands out more than the rest as far
as being able to touch me emotionally."
... on WOMEN
What I first notice on a woman: "I'm first drawn to
their eyes then intelligence is a big thing for me. And also
like a sense of humor because I joke a lot. I say a lot of
things that a lot of people just don't get. I will make a
lot of silly random comments and quote silly random movies
sometimes, and if a person doesn't really get my humor, then
they're out. It's not even necessarily like a color,
sometimes there's just a glow that you just take notice
of."
Attention-getters: "I really am not big on games,
I mean, sure you got to play a little hard to get, I suppose
just to keep some interest. But I'm not one of those guys
who's like big into the game and the pursuit of it. Because
I don't pick up on that. If someone's playing too hard to
get for me, then I'm not sure if they are into me or what.
I'm not very good at reading signals. So I guess if someone
is trying to get my attention, all they had to was just talk
with me. They don't have to be overly flirty or anything or
laugh at even everything that I say. Just kind of like just
talk to me, that's all you need to do, just talk to
me."
Are you approachable: "Hell yeah, I'm approachable. I'm
definitely approachable. I'm kind to everyone."
Ideal woman: "Someone who I can hang out with, I
don't go out, I don't go clubbing or anything like that. I
rarely ever go out to a club. So someone who can just hang
out with me. Someone who can stay in and watch a movie and
be content with that, maybe chill with a bottle of wine. Or
do things with, be active with, like take interest in one
another's interests. Intelligent, someone that I can talk
to, someone who intrigues. I love taking to people who know
something that I don't know or know a lot about something
that I don't know. I'm drawn to that, I like learning.
Someone who just gets me. You kind of got to have a
sense of humor in order to get my sense of humor. Honestly I
don't know how to describe it. I can be sarcastic sometimes,
not in a judgmental way, just sarcastic. I'm really kind of
crazy. Sometimes I will say things, even when I'm not making
a joke, sometimes I will just talk and go on a rant about
something and I'll even forget what the hell I'm talking
about or what my point was. It goes the same for my jokes,
sometimes they just don't even make sense.""
I can't resist a woman who ... "makes me smile."
Most important quality in a woman: "Just being very
understanding. The other person needs to understand the
other person that they're with. They just need to know who
they're with and not need to change a thing about them.
That's the thing is a lot of people get into relationships
wanting to change the other person and that's just never
going to work. They're always going to be who they are. And
even if that person changes for you, then they're going to
resent you for that. Some people will change for the other
person just out of love or respect and wanting to be with
that person and knowing that there's just no other way. That
other person wants you to change and so in order to be with
that other person, you have to. But if they do that, they're
going to resent you, there's nothing good that can come of
it. So be with a person that you want to be with as they
are, right when you meet them."
Ideal date: "I'm a foodie, so I would like to go to a
restaurant that I really enjoy and the girl has to eat. no
picking at a salad. She has to eat. A good concert, or
something like that afterwards."
What makes me call a woman back after a first date: "I
guess there's just something you get when you're on that
first date. You either vibe with the person or you don't. I
can't really say that there's one specific thing that would
make me want to go back for a second date. You just have to
click with the person, if you don't then there's no point,
you're just wasting both your time."
I'd never date a woman who ... "was heavy into drugs.
Again, I try not to judge people who do things that I don't
do, or don't necessarily understand, but I know people
dabble, people experiment, whatever, that's fine, you know
it's your own journey, and you're entitled to live your own
journey, your own life. But my life just does not sync up
with someone else's who would be heavy into doing
drugs."
How I show I care: "I would tell them. I will
occasionally here and there like leave a cutesy little note
or something but if something were to come to me, I would
just do it. I don't have like a book of things that I do to
swoon a woman."
What makes a woman unforgettable: "Sense of humor,
intelligence - it just depends on the person."
What I wish women understood more about men: "The only
thing that women need to understand about men is that men
don't understand women. I mean that's sort of what makes the
whole dating/courting/relationship thing so awesome. The
whole time you're trying to figure out that other person.
And you'll pick up on things over time and that's what's
sort of fulfilling about that, is that you can learn
something new about that person that you'll either like or
you'll dislike. It's just part of the process which is I
think what makes it so interesting. If I knew everything
there was to know about women, there would be nothing
interesting about going out with someone. If I could predict
every single move that she was going to make or understand
every little subtext that's attached to something she says,
then there wouldn't be the beautiful turmoil that comes with
being with women. Yeah, that's all you just got to know is
like just like you don't know everything there is to know
about men, men don't know everything there is to know about
women, that's all you need to men. Everyone needs to just
chill."
One thing a woman has never done for me yet, but I would
love it: "n/a
... on RELATIONSHIPS
On marriage: (dating 5 years) - I'm not getting married
until I'm 40. If you found someone that you click with,
there's no point in separating from them."
"I think people just put too much pressure on the
process to date and to move in with one another and to get
married and plan a wedding and have children and that kind
of thing. And that's not, one it's not something that's very
important to me but it's also I think by putting so much
pressure on it, it puts it up on a pedestal that can never
ever meet anybody's expectations. And so I just kind of like
let whatever happens happen. How many married couples who
are just unhappy or wish that they had done more
before they got married and have the pressure of supporting
a household or family. You meet so many people who are like
that and you also meet a lot of people who are very, very
happy and don't have any regrets. There's the exception to
every rule but just for me, it's not something that I holds
a lot of importance on."
Is a relationship important to you: "It's like having a
best friend and someone that you know for sure that you'll
be getting some from, just to say bluntly. It's
perfect."
What I love most about being in a relationship: "I like
the oomfortability of it. I like knowing a person and being
able to share whatever you want with them who knows every
single bit about you, or just about everything about you in
a relationship. There's something wonderful about it. Let's
just say, it's like having a best friend that you can tell
anything to because they know everything about you. There's
something just wonderful about being in a relationship
because it's comfortable, and not being in a relationship
because it's comfortable, you have to really enjoy the other
person and want to be with them, but being in a
relationship, I guess the thing I enjoy most about is how
comfortable it is."
Top relationship keys: "Trust and honesty. Those are
very typical answers but it's also true. You got to have
those in order for a relationship to work. If you don't
trust the other person, then you're always going to question
their intentions and what they're doing and no one wants to
be questioned all the time. You got to have a flow in your
relationship, if it's not there, then it's not thee. And if
you don't trust the person, then don't be in the
relationship. Trust comes from the honesty in the
relationship."
A woman in a relationship with me can expect ... "me to
be very independent. I like to do what I want to do. And I
also like to spend time with that other person. They got to
be independent for me as well. That's just what you'd have
to expect is you'd have to be your own independent person
and know that I am also. That I don't just function as a
unit. I function as my own separate unit."
What I expect: "I expect to be able to do what I want
to do."
When I'm in love, ... "I'm just me in love."
What makes me feel close to a woman:
Greatest relationship
lesson: "I
guess the trust and honesty thing. It just works."
What makes a woman marriage material:
... on SEX
What makes sex good: n/a
I feel my sexiest ... "after I've worked out."
Most sensual part of a woman's body is ...
Sexiest thing a woman can wear in private: "Lingerie.
I'm not necessarily huge on that. A big T-shirt and undies
is fine with me."
Surefire way to seduce me: "Just be yourself. Be
comfortable with who you are. I'm not big on games and
stuff, so I can usually see right through just about
anything."
... on LIFE
Making my mark: "That is probably one of my best and
worst qualities is that I'm never satisfied so I don't think
that I'm even close to making the mark that I want to leave.
I just always strive to do better. I'd like to be able to do
it all, all mediums of art, writing, directing, acting,
music, painting. I love expressing myself and I love for
people to be able to appreciate it; and not just to
appreciate to be like oh good job, but I mean to change
people's lives, that's the kind of stuff I want to do. If I
can help someone realize something about themselves by
seeing something or hearing something that I do, now or in
the future, then I will have achieved what I wanted by doing
what I did or making what I made. That's what I want to.
Because everyone's always searching for something about
themselves that they haven't realized or be comfortable with
about themselves. And sometimes that's revealed to them
through art whether it be the person who's making that art
is so comfortable with themselves and putting it out there
or making a statement and the person observing it realizes
something that they hadn't thought about before by hearing
or watching. So that's why I want to put myself out there...
I mean I don't know if I have something profound to say, it
depends on the person who's listening."
Responsibility to society: "No, I don't feel like I
have a responsibility to society. That if I never change a
single person's life, it's not my responsibility, it's not
anybody's responsibility. They're responsible for themselves
and being responsible for yourself, you should also include
just taking consideration for everybody else as well because
that should give you that extra thing that makes you feel
whole. I'm sure people who achieve something in life because
of someone else's failure doesn't feel whole about
themselves because they had to step on somebody to get what
they got. The only responsibilities that I have to society
is to not hurt them."
Valuable life lesson: "I've learned so many, I can't
repeat just one and have it be the one that stands out among
all the others."
I must ... "travel, be able to play an instrument well,
and I want to be able to make one of my own movies. Write
and direct my own movie."
Best advice received: "Just to not take anything
personally. Nothing. Even if it's something directed at me
about something that I did, chances are the person who is
saying what they're saying to me or making a comment about
something I did, or me personally, whatever they're
commenting on has nothing to do with me, it has to do with
them and how they think they're commenting on affected them.
So they could have some old memory that happened in their
day that is just a very sensitive thing to them and that
comment that I made or the shirt that I'm wearing made them
think of that and so they lashed out at me because of it.
Every thing that people do doesn't necessarily have to do
with the individual they're directing their negativity at.
The negativity comes from inside of them, something that
they have a problem with. (I got that from a few books that
I read) It's always where it all comes from. If it's a
criticism that I can learn from, that I can change without
me feeling like I'm compromising something, then listen to
it and change it and take only however you choose to take
it, but don't let it affect you because it has nothing to do
with you."
Best advice I've given a woman: "I don't know if I've
ever given a woman good advice or not."
... on HIS FAVORITE THINGS
Movie: "Braveheart."
TV Show: "Arrested Development."
Book: "The Power of Now. That just kind of got me
thinking a different way."
Music: "DAngelo is my favorite artist."
Food: "French fries. It's my favorite thing to
eat."
... final THOUGHTS
Wheels: "I have a sports car but now I'm kind of over
it. My next car will be a point A to point B car. I have a
BMW 335 coupe."
Pets: "Chihuahua corky mix. And the faces that I
usually get from everybody, most of the time, is just a look
of curiosity. And then they expect it to look like a
Chihuahua. this guy is the most unique beautiful looking dog
that I've ever seen. I went to this adoption festival to go
find a dog. ...(more info) Sky because he's a male but he's
like a very calm temperament and it doesn't feel masculine.
He's just somewhere in between. So Sky just makes you think
of something light and airy. When I think of the sky, I have
a smile on my face, so I named him Sky."
Tattoos: "I have a tattoo. It is literally just the
word "Be" on my left forearm.".
Did you get that after reading the Power of Now."Indeed
I did."
Always in my refrigerator: "Water, some kind of meat,
garlic and onion."
Hottest possession: "My crystals. I collect crystals.
They all represent something different. My favorite is my
crocite. If you look up a picture of it, you'll see
why."
I'd change places for 24 hours with ... n/a
I'd most like to hang out with ... "Dangelo, my
favorite musical artist. He's only put out two albums and
he's brilliant. And I know it's because he won't put out
anything that he doesn't absolutely love which is kind of
how I am. I am a perfectionist and if I don't think it's
perfect then I won't put it out, that's why I haven't
actually finished a single script because I always go back
and rewrite. I think he's brilliant and I would love to know
him and see what makes him tick and just be around that kind
of brilliance."
Is there someone you would love to act in a movie with, male
or female: "I'd really want to work with Guy Pierce. I
just sort of recently decided this. I have other favorite
actors, I'm a Robert Deniro fan and also Russell Crowe But I
want to work with Guy Pierce because he never plays the same
character, he's always different. You almost don't even
recognize him in any movie that he's in. Momento, Factory
Girl. He played Andy Warhol."
Celeb I'd love to take on a date: "Natalie Portman. She
seems very intelligent and sweet and the kind of person that
would be a fun date."
Do you have a favorite desperate wife: "I cannot choose
one. They're all great."
"She's brilliant."
Why I'm a great catch: "I can't really say why I'd be a
good catch. If you like me, you like me."
Me in a word: "Me."
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